Ex sistas, help a bro out--signals that show you're interested

rebel8

Please list the signals you give to a guy that let him know you're interested in dating him.

This is for a guy who is new to the dating world, who has only his knowledge from the Youth book to guide him. He needs your wisdom.

This ought to be fun!

ex-nj-jw

Jeez, I haven't dated in 24 years

I think I remember, smiling alot when I like a guy, leaning into the other person when talking, trust your instincts, usually you can tell just by how that person is responding.

Tell your friend to just relax and let the vibes flow, don't try to figure out if it's the right person on the first date or two or three......He is free to date without having to commit to marraige, my permission has been granted.

He can even have sex if he wants, buy gotta wear a "gym hat" ALWAYS. Remember no means no, absolutely no exceptions, god I feel like I'm talking to my sons

nj

Honesty

Thanks for posting this, Rebel.

Coming out of a controlling cult into the real world can be daunting, to say the least.

I have so misread signals from normal 'worldly' girlz in the past 2 years .

Looking back, I wonder how many times I missed a great opportunity.

So....

Help us out sistas and post the signs of da times for us Drew Carey types that were repressed by the Faithless Salivitaters of the watchtower.

eclipse

eye contact - if she averts your eyes, that's not a good sign

twirling hair, yes, its a cliche, but it actually is true, if shes playing with her hair, she is actually thinking of ...

if she touches you, even once, that's a good sign, she would not touch you if she didn't like you.

if she doesn't, that could just mean she's shy or conservative.

distance away from you, is not a good sign

body language is a huge thing to pay attention to

open arms, upturned hands, smile, relaxed eye contact,

if she looks into your eyes, and tells you that she likes you,. that's pretty much a green light

I know I'm speakig for alot of women, so feel free to correct me where you feel I have been wrong.

zeroday

If she disrobes before you that's a good sign...

nvrgnbk

Sighing and moaning is also a good sign.

brinjen

Leaning toward, playing with hair, eye contact, touching, open arms etc are all very good signs (as already posted).

A good tip for a first date, suggest to meet at a cafe for a coffee. Not a coffee house, but somewhere just that bit nicer. Public place with some intimacy. Give signals that you won't make a big deal out of it if she says no. It lets her know that you are genuinely interested in her at the same time respecting her right to make her decision. Ask her questions about herself, but don't get too nosey. Pay attention to her responses. You don't have to remember every detail, she won't expect you to.

Call her the next day, to say "hi" and to see when she is free for another date.

brinjen

Sighing and moaning is also a good sign.

LOL!

It can also mean she's faking it...

Frank75

Sighing and moaning is also a good sign.
LOL!
It can also mean she's faking it...

NVR:

I think you've just been busted my good friend!

Frank75

Mysterious

Blowing off other things she's interested in to hang out with you, being willing to let you pick where to go and what to do, making excuses of not having had enough time to do her makeup or clean the house means she cares what you think of her.

Ex sistas, help a bro out--signals that show you're interested

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