I've been through a similar traumatic experience just recently that made me question a lot of that.... But as you've said there are already too many stories around so I do not want to make this board any more depressing than it is.
Illyrian,
You can most definitely feel free to express your feelings here. I don't consider things like this being mentioned too much, just alot lately. That's one of the things great about this board....everyone sticking by one another.
((((((Illyrian))))))