Bamboozled.

by Blueblades 11 Replies latest jw friends

  • Blueblades
    Blueblades

    One of the saddest lessons of history is this: If we've been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. We're no longer interested in finding out the truth. The bamboozle has captured us.

    It's simply too painful to acknowledge, even to ourselves, that we've been taken. Once you give a charlatan ( a person who pretends to have expert knowledge or skill that he or she does not have ) power over you, you almost never get it back. So the old bamboozle tends to persist as new ones arise. Carl Sagan.

    What Carl wrote helps explain why it is so difficult for us to help our loved ones to acknowledge that they been taken, being bamboozled, they don't or won't admit that they have been deceived, duped, confused, and captured by the Charlatan known as the Watchtower, Governing Body, Faithful and Discreet Slave, Anointed, 144,000, Writing Department, Legal Department, Service Department, and any other dept. under the direction of the Governing Body.

    For those of us who have accepted that we were once bamboozled, it was painful to admit, yet we took steps to release ourselves from this captivity, and a hard lesson has been learned. Hopefully we can be of a help to many others who lurk here and family members whom we love so dearly.

    When was it that you realized that you were a victim of a charlatan, and was bamboozled? For me it took 33 years to realized that I have been bamboozled! (Duped. Deceived, Confused and Captured.)

    Blueblades

  • Mrs Smith
    Mrs Smith

    I faded 9 years ago and still believed all the Craptower lies for another 5 years after leaving. When I finally realised that I had been bamboozled I was very angry but in the end I would rather know so that I can prevent it from happening again than live with the guilt of never doing enough for Jah.

  • Open mind
    Open mind

    Fully realized I was "bamboozled" about a year ago.

    I still get "boozled" now and then, but that's my choice. (Wine is my favorite "boozle" now.)

    Open Mind

  • brunnhilde
    brunnhilde

    Knew I was 'boozled from about the age of seventeen (the year after baptism) but was especially effective at boozling myself until last year at age 36 when I couldn't convince myself to believe the crap anymore. Am currently a recovering boozler and effective fader... *grin*

  • MadTiger
    MadTiger

    Another vocabulary word for today:

    Svengali

  • SixofNine
    SixofNine

    This discussion board is currently under attack by a few trolls bamboozeling others into believing they are legitimate posters.

  • brunnhilde
    brunnhilde

    On this thread?? Now I'm not just bamboozled, I'm confuzzled...

  • What-A-Coincidence
    What-A-Coincidence

    someone say booze?

  • flipper
    flipper

    Blueblades- Mr. Flipper here. I finally realized it in 2003 at age 44 when elders were giving me personal opinions on something important in my life which was horrible advice. Not at all in harmony with what the gb tells them. Then the child molestation coverup and sttlements just confirmed in my mind I had made the right decision to leave in 2003. But as you say, it took me 44 years. I was raised in it

  • LongHairGal
    LongHairGal

    I think I kind of suspected in the early years that I was being bamboozled but I suppressed these feelings because I was caught up in a network of socializing for about a decade or so.

    But, like a cork that is held under water, these feelings always rose to the surface 'til they could no longer be ignored. Then, I learned about all the scandals and found out that many of my suspicions were right on target.

    LHG

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