Probably not.
If you were an elder and were married, you would have stayed away from me and I from you. I am a single woman and we probably would not have been invited to the same things anyway so we would not have had too much to say to each other.
If you were in my hall and were looking for women (mother theresa types) to do favors for everybody (which they are famous for) I would be running in the opposite direction.
LHG