Welcome, Gregg from Chicago!
Hope you enjoy the banter here. I love that word--banter!
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(Aside to truthsearcher: I know a couple who postponed having children for over 20 years because it would be unseemly given that Armageddon was "coming real soon." -- He was an elder, she a pioneer.)
Newbie here...
by BuzbyU 39 Replies latest jw friends
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outnfree
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SnakesInTheTower
Welcome Gregg!
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bluesbreaker59
Welcome from another midwesterner!!!
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Cellist
Welcome to the board, Gregg.
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eclipse
Welcome!
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Gopher
Hey Gregg and welcome !
You said while an elder you were
still unhappy trying to make everyone else happy, so I stepped down. Seems that I did it all for everyone else instead of myself... Go figure
Although I was an MS and not an elder, I feel the same way. The doctrine we are taught is that you absolutely must "turn the other cheek" to be their kind of Christian. They teach sheeplike meekness, and a yielding spirit.
In that way, you never stand up for yourself. That's the way they liked us. They had me that way, and it didn't serve me well.
It's almost like you have to give yourself permission to be the least bit assertive. Now you're out from under their thumb. Feels good, doesn't it?
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Lady Liberty
Dear Buz,
Welcome to the forum!!!
Thank you for sharing your story! I am so glad you and your brother have each other!!
Sincerely,
Lady Liberty
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sparrow
welcome buz!
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BuzbyU
I had to say thank you for the WARM WELCOME! Sorry I have not replied earlier, this week has been pretty busy! You know, I have been doing my evil, sinful, apostate, worldly things.. loving life! haha..... I will try and keep up this time! Have a great day all! Gregg
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Gopher
You know, I have been doing my evil, sinful, apostate, worldly things..
Just like the JW's say, once you leave them you lose God's holy spirit and spiral downward!! LOL.
Loving life!
Yes-siree! Life's at least as important as posting on this board. (I think so, anyhow.)