Newbie here...

by BuzbyU 39 Replies latest jw friends

  • outnfree
    outnfree

    Welcome, Gregg from Chicago!
    Hope you enjoy the banter here. I love that word--banter!

    out

    (Aside to truthsearcher: I know a couple who postponed having children for over 20 years because it would be unseemly given that Armageddon was "coming real soon." -- He was an elder, she a pioneer.)

  • SnakesInTheTower
    SnakesInTheTower

    Welcome Gregg!

    Snakes()

  • bluesbreaker59
    bluesbreaker59

    Welcome from another midwesterner!!!

  • Cellist
    Cellist

    Welcome to the board, Gregg.

    Cellist

  • eclipse
    eclipse

    Welcome!

  • Gopher
    Gopher

    Hey Gregg and welcome !

    You said while an elder you were

    still unhappy trying to make everyone else happy, so I stepped down. Seems that I did it all for everyone else instead of myself... Go figure

    Although I was an MS and not an elder, I feel the same way. The doctrine we are taught is that you absolutely must "turn the other cheek" to be their kind of Christian. They teach sheeplike meekness, and a yielding spirit.

    In that way, you never stand up for yourself. That's the way they liked us. They had me that way, and it didn't serve me well.

    It's almost like you have to give yourself permission to be the least bit assertive. Now you're out from under their thumb. Feels good, doesn't it?

  • Lady Liberty
    Lady Liberty

    Dear Buz,

    Welcome to the forum!!!

    Thank you for sharing your story! I am so glad you and your brother have each other!!

    Sincerely,

    Lady Liberty

  • sparrow
    sparrow

    welcome buz!

  • BuzbyU
    BuzbyU

    I had to say thank you for the WARM WELCOME! Sorry I have not replied earlier, this week has been pretty busy! You know, I have been doing my evil, sinful, apostate, worldly things.. loving life! haha..... I will try and keep up this time! Have a great day all! Gregg

  • Gopher
    Gopher
    You know, I have been doing my evil, sinful, apostate, worldly things..

    Just like the JW's say, once you leave them you lose God's holy spirit and spiral downward!! LOL.

    Loving life!

    Yes-siree! Life's at least as important as posting on this board. (I think so, anyhow.)

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