JEALOUSY! Have you ever suffered from it?

by nicolaou 18 Replies latest social relationships

  • IP_SEC
    IP_SEC

    Yes nic,

    My last serious one. Jesus tap dancing christ. Insanely jealous. I left a good band because 'she' couldnt handle it. Big mistake on my part.

    Next one that acts like that, sayonara.

  • emptywords
    emptywords

    Jealousy is the one emotion that is mentioned in the bible in dramatic scenerios. Jehovah is a jealouse God. When they died all their thoughts their jealousy died with them. Jealousy is rotten to the bone. And so on.....

    Jealousy is really one of the worst inflictions one can have, Cain killed Able because of his jealousy. Dare I say that Satan was jealous of Jesus, and this contirbuted to his downfall. Jealousy eats away at any goodness and is so destructive that the only way one can get over this evil is by love.

    Love of God, love of oneself, love of one another, love of principle.

    Feeling insecure is what makes one want to incite jealousy in the other and vice vera. To be jealouof another is not to have confidence in the other person for what ever reason.

  • Crumpet
    Crumpet

    Yes I have been foaming at the mouth jealous and have also been on the receiving end of the odd punch from jealous ones.

    Now I am just jealous for pure worship......................of me. See its a godly quality. My bible tells me so!

  • collegegirl21
    collegegirl21

    Yeah, I've suffered from jealousy and I've had boyfriends do the same. Its interesting how a person reacts to certain things.

  • R.F.
    R.F.

    My ex-fiancee was extremely jealous. She didn't even want me talking to other women, AT ALL. She said it wasn't the fact that she didn't trust me, she just didn't trust them. There was one big fiasco that almost ended our relationship alot sooner over the fact that she wanted me to no longer talk to my good female friend that I knew for years before my ex and I were together.

  • IP_SEC
    IP_SEC
    She said it wasn't the fact that she didn't trust me, she just didn't trust them.

    If you didnt know, Translation: I really dont trust you but Im too big of a weenie to tell you to your face.

  • nicolaou
    nicolaou
    have also been on the receiving end of the odd punch from jealous ones

    Nina, I'm hoping you're being metaphorical but I'm guessing you're not. Pricks.

    I'm curious too know how far any of you can be tolerant of a partners flirtatious behaviour. I mean, we all do it but how well do deal with it when that successful, fit hot guy who's ten years younger than you with a package the size of a canoe down his pants is the object of your lady's coquettish attention?

    Grrrrr .. .

  • IP_SEC
    IP_SEC
    package the size of a canoe down his pants is the object of your lady's coquettish attention?

    Easy,

    Question: You you plan to have sex with him? Answer: No honey of course not.

    Ok cool ya I think he's kinda hot too.

    If the answer is Yes:

    Fine smell ya later. Have fun. Dont let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya.

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    Hell, I look and oogle and what not, but Im not on the hunt. It would be rather hypocritical for me to get upset with a sig other for doing the same no?

  • YoursChelbie
    YoursChelbie
    I'm curious too know how far any of you can be tolerant of a partners flirtatious behaviour

    That's actually a really good question. When you consider that the opposite of love is Apathy.

    If, hypothetically, a person can tolerate outright and flagrant flirting from their spouse without even a mild protest, there has to be something wrong with that person. That apathy would signify an absence of love. On the other hand, (and equally bad) the one doing the flagrant flirting would be exhibiting a symptom that there's commitment lacking on their part to go as far as violate the trust that is essential to a successful marriage.

    YC

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