Hugs Kate,
Sometimes the apology isn't enough, I have to try to fix the damage done. She is my firstborn and got the worst of it even though I did not force meetings on her, nor did I ever make her go out in service. I was a sick neurotic mother from being raised a dub and still believed 100% it was "the truth" until she was 12. She did go to a private dub school and some meetings.
You obviously love your daughter dearly and she is lucky to have you. How old is she now? Perhaps you shouldn't take full responsibility for her problems if she is now an adult. I mean absolutely no disrespect whatsoever, just that, as we become adults we can't blame our upbringings for every problem we have. And from the sounds of your post, I highly doubt she blames you either.You didn't force her into what many of us in fact were forced into. You shouldn't beat yourself up for what you didnt' know back then.
You mean to tell me there are private dub schools?? Boy I would rather have gone to one of them then suffer the torment of going to a public school as a dub. Might as well pin a kick me sign on a kid. Upside though, I learned real quick not to let others opinion get to me. Speaking of which, feel free to ignore my two cents.
