How to be seduced

by serendipity 21 Replies latest social relationships

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  serendipity

  From Plentyoffish.com
  
  Have you ever wondered what would happen if you took a psychometric test and it told you all your secret desires? The way in which someone could ensnare you on the first date among other things? If you dare to proceed, it will generate a complete step by step guide on how someone would seduce you from the first date all the way to your bed and you wouldn't be able to resist.
  
  http://www.plentyoffish.com/seduction_invite.aspx
  
  I LMAO reading my results. It's amusing, if somewhat exaggerated.
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  IP_SEC

  matt is not necessarily promiscuous or lacks standards, but the overall answer patterns suggest that matt is exceedingly sensitive to the psychological and physical elements of romance and passion, even to the point they, at times, may lack impulse control. People like this tend to love life with zeal, often living in the moment and trying not to let experiences pass them by, with many having engaged in a wider range of sexual behaviors, sometimes with a number of different partners. Someone like this is bound to be gregarious and flirtatious in public, becoming extremely sensual and wildly uninhibited behind closed doors. In fact, these individuals are amongst the most passionate of people when the timing is right.

  OMG oops there was more

  Step 1: How to Approach Me!

  A person’s “approach” to matt lays the foundation for Steps 2 and 3 of seduction. Three elements help define an overall “approach:”

  • What kind of flirt you are (Flirting Style) • How you pace your interactions (Pace) • Your dating attitude (Creativity and Sense of Humor)

  Let’s explore the elements of an “approach” that are likely to get matt to notice you.

  Know My Favorite Flirting Styles

  Online dating involves a wide range of possible online flirting behaviors. Men and women prefer many of the same flirting strategies, but those strategies are often weighted slightly differently between the sexes. The Plenty of Fish Seduction Survey reveals these hidden trends as well as some new, inside information on how to present yourself as you’re using these flirting tactics. Let the game of seduction begin.

  Men’s Top Ten Favorite Ways to Have Someone Flirt with Them 1. Displays concern for him, his feelings and well being 2. Talks about things he likes or dislikes, making comments and showing interest 3. Shows him your a daring or mischievous side 4. Sends him special/cute email messages 5. Shares jokes or amusing anecdotes with him 6. Compliments him on his screen name, attitude, personality and appearance 7. Makes an effort to contact him in some form most every day 8. Sends instant messages when he and you are online at the same time 9. Discusses seriously the traits he desires in a partner 10. Uses suggestive language in online conversations with him

  Flirting Styles that TURN ME ON

  1. Playful and natural (someone who lets the inner child shine through). 2. Witty (someone who draws you in with words and quick thinking). 3. Confident (people who are direct and zero in what they want and go for it).

  Flirting Styles that TURN ME OFF

  1. Manipulative (someone who sends mixed signals and leaves you wondering if they are interested in you or not – basically a person who is into the power dynamics that come with a relationship, and who will ultimately have the upper hand, especially in seducing each other). 2. Charming (a person who’s a flatterer and who quickly gets on your good side). 3. Prim and Proper (someone who’s ultra-chivalrous, shows impeccable dating/courting manners and is somewhat old-fashioned).

  Know My Preferred Pace

  When it comes to talking to matt about an offline meeting or date, matt prefers to have someone communicate with them via:
  

  telephone instant messaging email a chat room conversation in person at an event organized by a dating service

  
  

  Generally speaking, matt prefers communicating with people online at least a few hours before meeting them offline. Therefore, matt is likely to be a fairly quick judge of character and someone that initially relies on the heart to assess someone. But, matt will then cross-check instinctual feelings with what the gut and brain also say about you. So, don’t be pushy and allow yourself to have a genuine conversation of substance.

  ahahahahahahah
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  bigdreaux

  how can i be seduced? do ya have a penis? no? okay, i'm seduced. beer doesn't hurt.
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  stillajwexelder

  HE is not necessarily promiscuous or lacks standards, but the overall answer patterns suggest that HE is exceedingly sensitive to the psychological and physical elements of romance and passion, even to the point they, at times, may lack impulse control. People like this tend to love life with zeal, often living in the moment and trying not to let experiences pass them by, with many having engaged in a wider range of sexual behaviors, sometimes with a number of different partners. Someone like this is bound to be gregarious and flirtatious in public, becoming extremely sensual and wildly uninhibited behind closed doors. In fact, these individuals are amongst the most passionate of people when the timing is right.

  What Makes This Type So Attractive? Those of high seducability can be absolute elixirs in and of themselves, with many drawn to this sort for their…

  • Uninhibited nature. Fun, fun-loving, and provocative, this type is very adventurous and erotophilic, open to trying new things, with many "closeted kinks" when it comes to sexual experimentation.

  • Lust for the sensual and the act of seduction. Not to be stigmatized as players necessarily, this sort loves anything that entertains their intellect, including the sexual, and that involves pleasure, including the potential for even greater pleasure.

  • Ability to be fabulous, hopeless flirts. Whether coy, up for tit for tat discourse, or clever in dishing out the flattery, this sort is alluring in their ability to be suggestive and fearless in expressing interest.

  • Their sensitivity and moodiness. A bit theatrical at times, and not afraid to express themselves in many ways, this sort will always keep you entertained, amusing woo’ers who know how to handle it.

  Tips for Tempting This Type:

  It can be easy for someone like HE to fall in love. So… Don’t get carried away and "dive in" with them, no matter how hard this is not to do! Many are only open initially, yet withdraw once someone gets "too close," despite their desire to be more emotionally involved for the long-term. Do choose your words and actions wisely. Do what you say and say what you mean.

  HE may well push your own boundaries or comfort level. So… Don’t engage in anything you may regret, whether it’s too soon, too risqué, or too… Do show tolerance and maintain a healthy sense of adventure.

  Despite conveying otherwise, this sort can have as many issues with sex and relationships as the next person. So… Don’t assume that this person is free of sex issues or necessarily sexually empowered. Many can have misguided ideas on what it means to be sexually liberated. Do be sensitive to any intimacy issues they may be grappling with.

  You may be tempted to be as impulsive as HE can sometimes be. So… Don’t give into any manipulation or even aggressive tactics that this sort can try to employ in getting the upper hand or having their way. Do fight that urge. Playing a little "hard to get" and pacing your interactions can actually heighten arousal and desire.

  These individuals love to flirt – and with just about anyone. Don’t assume that HE, who may be a bit neurotic or narcissistic in nature, is 100% into you and only you. Do let HE know what constitutes proper flirting to you and where you need to draw your boundaries in getting involved with someone.

  Many long for monogamous, long-term relationships. Don’t assume that HE just cares about physical pleasure or living in the moment, despite a reputation of becoming bored or tiring easily, especially once the chase has cooled. Furthermore, don’t assume that many have wracked up a high number of sex partners, if that’s your concern. Plenty of people in this category have been involved in long-term, often monogamous, relationships where they have established a safe, trusting space for sexual exploration and sharing. Do talk about each other’s expectations, needs and wants.

  Bottom Line: While this type can be into all sorts of high stimuli, becoming easily aroused, don’t assume that their ability to realize their highest sexual self on a physical level translates into being able to do that on an emotional or spiritual level in the boudoir, If this is what you’re after you may be disappointed. Rather allow yourself to be allured, recognizing that much of what they do is based on their need to be pleased, their desire to be liked and loved, their need to impress, and a deep-seated vulnerability when it comes to being intimate with another.
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  SnakesInTheTower

  serendipity...

  I found the results interesting (I accidently killed the tab though before I could print it out...oops)...the first part was pretty much on target..how to approach me, etc......but the last part was so far off the mark...called me a Beta Tiger or some such nonsense. what the hell does THAT even mean?

  SnakesIntheTower (of the "so not a beta tiger, scratching his head figuring it out" Sheep Class)
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  AllTimeJeff

  Interesting Profile. It came back with much that was accurate about me. Who knows.....
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  Hortensia

  "The overall answer patterns suggest that Hortensia is well-versed with the complex games related to romance and passion, having had perhaps both meaningful and just-for-fun sexual experiences. People like Hortensia may seem to have different sides – in some situations they’ll come across reserved and conservative, while other times they will be utterly wild and crazy. People like this have a good handle over their thoughts and feelings most of the time, but they also know when it’s appropriate to be impulsive and sensual. These individuals tend to be very curious and open to new experiences when enticed, if they don’t feel rushed or pressured. Thus, people like Hortensia tend to “warm up” or are obviously aroused fairly easily when they feel in control of the situation and good about the interaction."

  sorta accurate - I've had both meaningful and just-for-fun sex. Just-for-fun is better in my opinion. I'm pretty reserved until I know people well.
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  What-A-Coincidence

  MY RESULTS:
  
  

  wac is not necessarily promiscuous or lacks standards, but the overall answer patterns suggest that wac is exceedingly sensitive to the psychological and physical elements of romance and passion, even to the point they, at times, may lack impulse control. People like this tend to love life with zeal, often living in the moment and trying not to let experiences pass them by, with many having engaged in a wider range of sexual behaviors, sometimes with a number of different partners. Someone like this is bound to be gregarious and flirtatious in public, becoming extremely sensual and wildly uninhibited behind closed doors. In fact, these individuals are amongst the most passionate of people when the timing is right.

  Flirting Styles that TURN ME ON

  1. Playful and natural (someone who lets the inner child shine through). 2. Confident (people who are direct and zero in what they want and go for it). 3. Sexy (in-your-face with exuding sexuality and in being flirtatious with words and touches).

  wac scored lower on Alpha and higher on Beta, so we call this profile a "Tiger." Tigers tend to push sexual boundaries – theirs and others. For them, sex is more an outlet for adult play and physical pleasure than it is merely a way to express love and admiration for a partner. Tigers do not necessarily use sex as a means to get closer to a lover or to solidify the relationship, Their focus is more that of enjoying pursuit and capture, and taking the lead on how to passionately play with their "victim," helpless to their invigorating sexual energy and wiles.
  
  MY COMMENTS: Yeah somewhat. Don't know about pursuit and capture though.
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  Warlock

  Have you ever wondered what would happen if you took a psychometric test and it told you all your secret desires?

  First of all, my dear Seren, it is nice to see you again, and it's nice to see your thread, no matter the subject.

  Secondly, I know all of my secret desires.

  Thirdly, I really miss the old Gabbly Days/Nights.

  Finally, something that I have never done, I give you an honorary Bat , for the "good old days". LOOK, I"M FEELING SENTIMENTAL, OKAY!!!!!??????

  Warlock
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  What-A-Coincidence

  warluck said:

  LOOK, I"M FEELING SENTIMENTAL, OKAY!!!!!??????

  WHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAATTTTTTTTTTTTT? The world is coming to an end.

  luv ya baty!