When my son needed a blood transfusion (heart operation) we let him have it.
We didn´t know if he wanted to be a JW later in his life and we wanted to give him the chance to choose.
We prayed a lot about it and we were ready to be killed in the great A for it-we found that the WT had so many dangerous and -in our opinion-strange doctrins, that we wouldn´t and couldn´t sacrifice our child on the alter of the watchtower.
We took him to a hospital far from our home town and didn´t tell anybody about it until one dag after he had the operation and the tubes were out.
Nobody came to see the child anyhow, my husband had been DF d, and it was a long journey to the hospital-so we were left in peace.
He´s a nice,healthy young man today, living a good life and he choose not to be a JW :-)
Yet, for many many years we were afraid for Jehovah´s revenge.
Mathilde