Work Well Done and Sore never felt so GOOD!

by Sparkplug 12 Replies latest jw friends

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug

    You know that feeling that you have worked like you are about to drop and yet you feel SO DAMN GOOD? Well that is how I am feeling. Not that it is a hugely interesting story, but this week has been as long as they come. Thought I would share it with you.

    WOW What Fun Right?

    It started with me being sick. Sinus and headache like I have not had in years. Then beginning Monday it moved into my chest and I have been so worn down. BUT I am in training for a new job position and cannot miss work. With that said, I have sat every day and tediously learned another , I don't know...7 or so computer programs, launguages and Federal and 5 State Tariff manuvering. I have to be honest and say that I have attempted to learn the basics of this all in between a throbbing headache, coughing till I cannot stand myself, and apologizing to everyone for all the germs I know I am spreading.

    I was really looking forward to Friday and getting home to relaxation and some Zen time. BUT as I pulled into my drive I notice my best friend wandering down the back alley with my ex-step daughter and things do not look right. After asking a few questions and in between tears and what I could asertain, I realized that my ex-step son never came home from school. OMG. This was just horrible. I felt so numb and yet strangely calm at the same as I proceeded to give instructions to each child that was there, and join the search. I called my loved ones and they started off as soon as they could to get to help us on the search.

    Two hours later, the police and neighbors are driving around. The public library has a search and I am starting to loose that strange calm that overtook me. Inside I am freaking out and I know his momma is doing the same by now. To make a long story short, he was found and as any 9 year old would do when lines are crossed, he decided to walk a good 5 miles or so in the opposite direction of where he should be and when found he was back at his home watching TV. I never have wanted to hug and beat a child so much at the same time.

    So against my bettter judgement still being sick, but truly thinking a good drink would be wonderful, the girlfriends and I decide to have some drinks, let the kids jump on the trampoline and unwind. I had purchased some really nice Vodka that I have not tried before and BAAAbaeee it was smooth. I did not think that hard though as seeing I had been sick all week, not eaten and with a very empty stomach and shot nerves, I proceeded to have a good tall smooth drink. And wow... that was not wize.

    During the night later being thirsty, I took a big drink of some juice I had at the house that had gone bad and did not realize it until I had drank far too much of it to turn back. So now, sick, nerves shot, a headache to beat all and a sick tummy I am up all hours of the night. My son is sick, My honey is sick, the kids are sick and in the morning we have offered to help clear a mess of trees and bramble out of a yard.

    So a weekend later and two huge trailers full of hard work done, I am SORE, aching, shakey and LOVING LIFE!! I am so happy to have worked that hard. A shower never felt that good and that absolutely painful from all the cuts and wounds. lol. Food never tasted so wonderful. A simple kiss never felt sooo good. I have not been so happy to see kids all alive and able to annoy the piss out of me. I am cut up from head to toe and a very painful shower later I am taking a moment to share. It just felt good to work. Plant flowers, clear shrub, cut trees, wield tools and slam glass after glass of water. I am so absolutely worn out and yet amazingly alive and so happy! I have that shakey leg feeling that one gets when having too much fun.

    Do you know the feeling?

    (The only thing I really feel bad for is my honey and the kiddos are all sick now and the sneezing and coughing and sniffing and such has moved on down the line. I did stock up on medicine and know exactly what feels bad and good on the aches and pains they are going through now. Hopefullly we can get them all feeling better.)

    Now back to class in the morning. Tonight I sleep like a princess. Ok, a princess with a lot of Neosporin all over her.

    I am so glad all the babies are safe.

  • sweetstuff
    sweetstuff

    You deserve a big hug girl! That sounds like one hella week! Glad your step son was safe. My nine year old recently did the same thing, I found her and her friend playing in an abondoned house, I wanted to hug her and beat her at the same time too! LMAO I just hugged her though, ok, I yelled a little too. Scared me senseless after all. I would suggest some epsom salts in a hot bath (when your cuts are healed up), great for that crappy horrible cold feeling. It is the best feeling though, when you are completely exhausted from helping someone else out, a feeling of accomplishment you don't get when its for yourself. Sweet dreams and get some rest.

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug

    Oh Sweet Stuff~ Will that epsom salt really help. Maybe I can put the other family members in it? I know sixy looks like he has tried to bath a few cats himself. LOL my son is pretty beat and my best friend helped today and she looked pretty rough also. I think that leaves just three of the kiddos that might be able to be doaked. Unfortunately, they are not the really sick ones. Thanks for the tip, It sounds so WONDERFUL right now....I can't even begin to tell you.

    I know it will be quite a bit for me. I slashed right through my tatt with a tree limb. Worried if it is going to trash it all up now? Does anyone know. I am cut up retty bad. But that bath sounds really tempting.

    I know that feeling of hug and beating at the same time. I still want to driove over there and tan his hide a bit. But as soon as I saw him, I lost all heart to even scold him. I just wanted to hug that little moose smelling boy.

    I am so glad you daughter and her friend were found. It is horrible No? We got to talking and I think each person at the table did it to thier parents, but times were different. strange. Kids being kids means something completely different now. I hear it is even more heartwrenching with grandbabies.... Oh lordy!

  • sweetstuff
    sweetstuff

    Whenever I am sick, I find the epsom salts help immensely! I get out of the tub, feeling so much better! Sorry about your tat, OUCH< OUCH! Hopefully it won't ruin it. Keeping my fingers crossed for you on that one. I do think most kids do this stuff, and as for grandbabies, hell no, not for at least 25 more years! Mine are seven and nine, lol.

  • HAL9000
    HAL9000

    Hi Decki!

    Sounds like you've been up to my tricks in the garden.....

    I know sixy looks like he has tried to bath a few cats himself

    Sounds familiar.....hope that the bath works, but you are right about feeling that you have achieved something!

    h9k

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug
    Mine are seven and nine

    It jumps up at ya...Watch out.

    17, 15 and 7 here. Ex Step kiddos are 9 and 15. But I hate that word. Because once my kiddo...always my kiddo. You don't just walk out on kids like that. They have parents. I promised to be there if they needed anything...and that is a standing promise no matter what paths we as Stepparents and relationships went years ago. Truly, when they walk in the house...oh yeah it is on...siblings still.

    And I swear the first one to make me a grandmama better be over 30. I am so serious!

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug

    Hi Decki!

    Sounds like you've been up to my tricks in the garden.....

    I know sixy looks like he has tried to bath a few cats himself

    Sounds familiar.....hope that the bath works, but you are right about feeling that you have achieved something!

    h9k

    HAL!! Long time no Type to you!!! I think so. I had so much fun. It was a blast. I love to get rough and tumbling. I was such a tomboy growing up. So things like this weekend are right up my alley. Looking over, I see Sixy justa snoring and crashed. Poor guy. I know he is damn tired. My son is beat and well, I think maybe my son is not feeling as happy as I am about having worked this hard....lol

    So great to see you about!!!

  • sweetstuff
    sweetstuff
    Ex Step kiddos are 9 and 15. But I hate that word. Because once my kiddo...always my kiddo. You don't just walk out on kids like that. They have parents. I promised to be there if they needed anything...and that is a standing promise no matter what paths we as Stepparents and relationships went years ago. Truly, when they walk in the house...oh yeah it is on...siblings still.

    You have my undieing, utmost respect for that Sparkplug!

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug
    They have parents

    I guess I should clarify that also. I meant to say they have parents. I am there to help the parents an to be there for them. I am never a "become the new parent" type of person. That never made sense to me. When the new 'love' moves in and tries to take over. I say as a new person, never try to take over. Be responsible, don't jump in and try to take anyones place. Don't try to be super dooper fun and win them all to your side. Best thing you can do is rememvber there is no need for a side, be someone they can come to and be a grown up. Remember who you are with may not have always have been this person you are with and no matter what, respect the actual parents. You know?

    This is probably a whole new topic, but it is very important to me that the parents who are there remain the parents and the new one make sure to be an addition and not a disruptor. Having been on all sides of the coin, to anyone merging families...that is the best advice I have. Just let it all go. Be there for the kids. Grow up and let the kids be the kids and let the adults be the adults and the parents be the parents..and if you are not the parent, make both parents life easier by being the most conciderate and enhancing addition you can be......just try to imagine if you were in the other persons place. Any of the other persons place.

    Anyhow.............off my soapbox.

    Need more Neosporin. lol

    That would be a good new topic No?

  • ex-nj-jw
    ex-nj-jw

    Sparkie,

    I hope you feel better soon, glad the kiddies are ok. I can't imagine what you guys went through!

    Sleep tight, don't let the bed bugs bite!

    nj

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