My mums mum is very sick, she has been in hospital the last month with really bad infection, they have tried every time of antibiotics to get rid of it. This last week she has refused to eat and drink, she told my mum she was tired of all of this, and basically said her goodbyes the other night.
We went in on Saturday to see her, my mum was there, and even tho it was a little strained we managed to talk for a few hours it was nice to see her.
I got a phone call off my dad's mum today saying that my nan was deteriorating, so I msg my mum to see if this was true, it wasnt, my nan likes to dramatise things, my mum promised me she would keep me updated. I received a phone call about an hour ago from my nan (dads mum) saying that the infection has cleared up and that she is improving and eating and drinking.
Even tho I was so happy to hear that news I was so angry that they thought my nan who isnt even related deserved to know before I did. So I rang my parents house, my dad answered the phone. I asked if this information was correct he said it was, and thats when I totally lost at him, I was yelling at him through tears why he thought my nan deserved to know before I did, he said that they have told me things first previously, and also justified it that i was there on Saturday. I yelled at him that I get a phone call this arvo saying she was getting worse now I get a phone call saying she was getting better, and that I should have been told first.
I yelled that he doesnt deserve to be a part of my or my childrens life, I said his behaviour is ridiculous and stupid and not coming from someone who supposedly loves me.
I then hung up on him!!!! Hubby was standing by watching and he said you get very scary when your like that but every one of my points were justified.
I dont care that they dont talk to me, but when something like this happens in my family I deserve to be treated with a bit of decency!!!.
Thanks for listening
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