I've got an idea: go to an improv comedy theater, or failing that, a comedy club. You'll have laughs, a couple drinks...it'll be fun.
Nose, I did that as one of my 30th b-day celebrations. Unfortunately, one of the comics was making light of being abused (choked) by a s/o. My ex-husband had done that to me. I spent a significant part of the evening running back and forth to the bathroom in tears. NOT FUN!!!