Emotion

by MsMcDucket 27 Replies latest watchtower medical

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    I didn't cry when my mother died. I didn't cry when I saw her laying lifeless in the hospital bed, nor did I cry at the funeral. My mother used to say bring me my flowers while I'm alive. But, I have been seriously dysfunctional ever since then, never did go back to work. I don't know what happened, but one day in my doctor's office, I started crying like a baby! Oh my goodness! I was crushed with emotion! The doctor asked me if I thought that I needed to be hospitalized in a psych ward? I said "no". I started asking all the questions about theory and the world and why and what's the use??? My doctor was going to put me into lock-up! I, probably, should have went.

    I still think that the world's a hateful place; and without my mom, it's just that much worse! How much pain can a person bare in one year!?

    Any threads talking about their loved one's suffering, I can't look at them. I'm glad that there are others here to give those people support. It does take a village to raise a child. . .

    Ok, I'm through testifying!

  • snowbird
    snowbird

    Here's to you, sista girl. I go into a funk each September because my mother died 2 years ago this month. You never get over it. It hits at the most unexpected times.

    Sylvia

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    I'm sorry for your loss MsMcD

    Josie

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    !!!BUMP!!!

    C'mon people, give and show some love to MsMcD. She's hurting now!!

  • troubled mind
    troubled mind

    I feel for you MsMcDuckett ......I am still dealing with my mom's death this past year . At the time I was strong taking care of what needed to be done .My husband kept saying it's okay to break down now, because sooner or later your going too ,but I just kept going .

    Now at very strange moments it will hit me ,and I bawl like a baby Certain things trigger the emotional response .

    I can't read some of the posts here about family members it is just to much to handle .

    If you ever need a shoulder or a listening ear ........

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    I had to make the decision to let her go! Hell, I'm the baby girl in the family! I don't care if I am a nurse! I guess that's why I don't want to be a nurse anymore!

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    She told me that she was ready to go to Jesus! I said "okay Mom".

  • troubled mind
    troubled mind

    Sounds like you made a loving decision then .

    She was ready .....sometimes we are the selfish ones holding on because we will miss them so much .In my mom's case she no longer had quality in her life .Her health was so bad she became so frustrated over not being able to do the things her mind wanted to do . I am glad it was my Dad that had to make the final call to stop medical intrusions and just allow nature to take it's course . I supported his decision ,but I know it tore his guts out to do it .

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket
    to stop medical intrusions and just allow nature to take it's course

    That's what "we" did with Mom. We put her in hospice. I kept thinking I can't keep her here for me. Plus, she was resting so much better in hospice.

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    Elvis Presley

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ab1sTU2xMNw

    One of those melancholy days!

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