two weeks notice

by purplesofa 14 Replies latest jw friends

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    I Have three days left of my two week notice working my job. In March, I will have been there five years. I took this job, after many years of thinking the end would come soon, keeping jobs that had no future or retirement..........I thought i would retire from this job.

    I put my two weeks notice in without having another job lined up. Im leaving hurt and pissed off. My other co-worker and I have been used and mistreated. Her time with the company is eight years. She interviews for a job today. She is leaving as well.

    We are both not married, She is single with no children, I am divorced with five children. Women like us in the workplace, seem to have it extra rough. We are constantly in fear of what not having a job means for us. It is our sole livlihood.

    As my time here comes to a close, I think how hard I have worked and unappreciated it has been. New young ones are coming on board with whole different value systems than us that are more seasoned. The lack of respect for expericance and just someone "older and wiser" baffles me.

    The doctors I work for, greed is rampant. It hurts to see so many men younger than myself, not satisified with incomes close to a million dollars a year. Although most of these docs are very nice, I see the older ones leaving and the new blood coming in, again with a different value system.

    The value of a secretary lessons with each new gadget Lexmark or Word or computer system that comes to the market. We can sail along fine and when a real human is needed the cost of that person outweighs the profits.

    Its easier to use up reams of paper on the printer, printing off unnecessary reports than to pay someone to configure the software to have it stop printing.

    There are times I have sat for hours with nothing to do, wasting time, getting paid, all the while thinking this is one of the very reasons hospitol bills are so high.

    Mismanagement of peoples time and skills, pouring out thousands of dollars daily adding to the cost of bills to us the patients, the customers.

    The so called educated people running the show, while degrees in common sense are ignored.

    The treatment of employees can be very abusive, the changing over of higher ups, presidents, CEO's, managers, Human resource managers, all with their new ideas how to run things, discounting the very people that have churned out the work day after day, month after month, year after year.

    The loss of a job can be very grevious. No matter how good or bad it was, no matter how good or bad the future job is. There is a networking of people, the family you form, that most I will never see again in my life. Many will not know I am gone, not even hardly a notice.

    We can take for granted the sameness and security of seeing the same person behind a desk.

    I and my co-worker fell victim to our superiors lack of taking care of a problem and now they are in a scramble to cover their asses.

    We are not the problem, it will raise its head again. But for now, they have a band aid, a bit of insurance that there jobs are secure a little bit longer.

    I did not want to be looking for another job right now. Wintertime coming up, my daughter three months away from having a baby. I will probably have to move from loss of income into something more financially managable. Its just the realities of life.

    I felt it necessary to walk away from the bullshit, I could not support my energy, talent, life experiance to a company that will use me and discard me. I see many that do not care about integrity anymore. Get the most out of it all and not worry about the long term consequences.

    Everytime someone rips off the hospitol of valuable time that is needlessly paid out for no service at all, everytime they take the money and run, it cost all of us untold dollars in health care.

    While the government lets that happen.......daily patients come in on the Medicare program with sickness and illness that could have been prevented long before now with proper care and money management early on. Being sick is big business.

    I wish I had never known this, it has made me a person I did not want to become. More cynical, paranoid, angry and hurt than ever over the easy clever way we all are victimized.

    It turns my stomach that I commited to giving a two weeks notice.

    Thanks for letting me get this rant out.

    purps

    edited to add: I wish I had walked out..........without a notice, I really do not regret quitting.

  • LoverOfTruth
    LoverOfTruth

    I walked out of a job back in late 1990. I had four kids and a stay at home husband. I never felt so relieved to walk out of that door! I know exactly how you feel. It will get better.

  • monophonic
    monophonic

    congrads purplesofa.

    i realized years ago the only way i could make a living was by doing something that i love...writing. and it's been a joke that i've had to work about 60 hours a week, up until recently, to make part time wages.

    i've worked in legal, tech, accounting and many jobs where i advanced quickly and then the politics ensued......and i realized that managers, middle management (the worst human scum on the planet), like their workers to be properly dumb. in between trying to get my freelance career up to speed i've had to do some temp work, and the minute i was properly dumb and doing a project in two months that would take me two days, i had no hassle. when i completed my projects too fast the rest of the office would freak out....so, i started working on my novel and giving 'feedback' to my managers, 'woe, rough project, need a few more weeks' and they'd practically wet their pants at how productive (unproductive) i was.

    just like i can't buy into the wtbts way of thinking, i can't buy into the corporate way of thinking, they're either working you to death, or scared if you're smarter than someone on a higher pay scale....thus why freelancing has worked for me, b/c i can dump clients/editors who have their heads up their asses and cultivate relationships with people who dig my talent.

    so, bravo. listen to your heart. (the heart is treacherous and deceitful as the wtbts would say)....thank god we're not under that iron fist anymore.

    you've made a brave move. i'm proud of you. best of luck in the next chapter of your life.

  • Sad emo
    Sad emo

    Congrats on your 'escape' from the grind purps!

    The NHS here is quite a bit the same - its being managed to death. My sis who is a nurse hated the fact that as a 'general' staff nurse, she no longer had time to actually nurse, she was so bogged down in paperwork. Fortunately, she's now in charge of a specialist acute unit where everyone, including her, has to work together. She still has the paperwork but its not the main part of her job anymore.

    I also think that the problem with an increasing number of employers is that as you wrote, they treat their employees as 'resources' - another piece of equipment, a consumable, rather than a human being. I was previously in a job where I experienced the change from 'people company' to 'machinery' treatment - very sad situation. The company went from highly sucessful to bust within that one year of change. Staff left, those who stayed were desperate to get out, productivity went down. Why these bosses just don't 'get it' is beyond me!!

  • Satanus
    Satanus

    Sad to get mistreated like that. I think that bigger orgs always get stuff like that. I call it stupidity. Smaller, more innovative businesses have less of it. They need to get things done, better, faster. It's where efficiency still matters. You sound to be highly qualified in the secretary feild. If you don't decide to dump the whole thing and go in a new direction, maybe you would fit in as an executive secretary, a personal secretary for a high level businessman, professional or lawyer. Good luck.

    S

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk
    We are constantly in fear of what not having a job means for us.

    And those in power capitalize on that fear.

    They "smell" it.

    They exploit it.

    I've found that the less I care, the better my business does.

    Let me qualify that.

    I care about quality.

    I care about treating clients respectfully.

    But I no longer care about playing games with those that seek control.

    As a result, I am no longer controlled.

    I have heard this experience repeated by many.

    It's not apathy I'm advocating.

    Rather, letting go of the fear.

    I wish you the best, purps.

    With the talents you possess, you will find something that suits you.

  • Tara
    Tara

    Purps, I know how you feel. I used to be a nurse in a family run nursing home that was sold to a corporation. After 5 years the corporation had run the lovely nursing home into into the ground and destroyed it's reputation. One by one all the decent nurses left and were replaced by agency nurses. When I left I was the MDS nurse. MDS=Medicare paperwork required by the government and from which the nursing home derives it's Medicare reimburshment. It was a horrendous, impossible job and after working 60 hours a week in the nursing home and at least 10 hours more a week at home to get caught up on my paperwork for 2years I left. The year before I left the corporation went bankrupt, it's CFO was under indictment for not paying payroll taxes. I wasdivorced with 4 children to support and no job lined up either. I just couldn't take it anymore and wish I had had the guts to just walk out without notice as well. I had worked there 16 years.

    I hope you find a new and better job with people who appreciate what an asset you will be to their company. I did.

  • SnakesInTheTower
    SnakesInTheTower

    purps...

    I have said this to you offline and online.... you will land on your feet. I have no doubt and I'm guessing this bunch on the board have no doubt.

    nvr:

    With the talents you possess, you will find something that suits you.

    Leslie... you have talent oozing from those artistic hands of yours, both in your beautiful detailed "doodles" and in your photography... yes, you will likely have to find some other temp jobs or other work to support your amazing art,.....you will do fine.... (((purps)))

    Snakes ()

    PS.....I think you also have a talent as a writer....I am saving that rant essay of yours ... I think you should (with a couple of small edits to the BS statement,etc ) submit it to a national publication, or at least a Letter to the Editor... it really succinctly states what is wrong with this country....

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    thanks

    i am here until five today, two hours tomorrow and two hours thursday and I am done

    just have to make it the next two days

    purps

  • tim hooper
    tim hooper

    Chin up, purps!

    I've no idea what's going to happen, and I won't insult your intelligence with platitudes, but now's the time to start making those changes in your life that you've talked about so often.

    tim

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