Hi from a newbie here

by tere1998 37 Replies latest jw friends

  • SnakesInTheTower
    SnakesInTheTower

    welcome tere1998

    it takes awhile for correspondance from the Society to trickle back to the local yokels.... give 'em time...give 'em time... (I am somewhat familiar with the behind the scenes procedures in Correspondance and Service (did not serve there myself, did talk to someone who did..who filled me in) When they come around, just tell em: "do what you want" and politely, or not depending on your mood at the time... shut the door in their faces..

    you owe them no explanation...just as the WTS tells new bible studies to write a letter to their churches when they leave, you just followed their own advice...in reverse.... lol

    Welcome to the board...hang around....

    Snakes ()

  • Madame Quixote
    Madame Quixote

    Welcome, tere.

  • XOCO
    XOCO

    welcome newbie

    XOCO

  • greendawn
    greendawn

    Welcome Tere, surely the JWs overemphasise their preaching work to the extend that it becomes a central part of their identity and not to preach the JW gospel becomes equivalent to not being a JW though otherwise a non preaching person may hold high moral standards.

  • changeling
    changeling

    A warm welcome to you!

    changeling

  • llbh
    llbh

    Welcome tere. You are very funny and right in the money.

    One of your stories reminded me of something. My daughter when she was a baby never slept through the night - hardly slept at all at night- anyway i often uded to walk her round in the pram hoping to get her to sleep -we are talking 1 2 3 a.m. here , and we used to see the daughter of an elder and her then bf - now husband walking alone unchaparoned and very much in love. You guessed nothing said. Her dad was an a very severe elder.

    Ps my daughter now 14yrs was worth every red eyed minute and can sleep forever!

    keep posting

  • Twitch
    Twitch

    Welcome tere1998

    Kudos to ya re your story

  • Quandry
    Quandry

    Welcome to the forum....

    You sound very well adjusted. Aren't you glad you got all of your education? I am sure you are a great example to your child!

    There were people in the KHall that actually shunned you because of your poor meeting attendance? And said things to you about going to school?

  • 38 Years
    38 Years

    Welcome Tere! You are bringing back my old memories of disrespecting the elders!

  • Hortensia
    Hortensia

    very funny - you do sound well-adjusted. and it is a really STUPID religion, some of the nitpicking is absolutely unbelievable. I recently heard the nauseating story about the courtship between a JW I used to know, late middle-age woman, and a very old JW man. She wouldn't go anywhere with him alone, because she didn't want to stumble anyone. It's amazing to me that the congregation couldn't just accept that by now she probably knows how to behave and wasn't likely to throw her clothes off and tackle him to the floor at the first chance she got. Yuck. Phooey. Anyway, she did the "chaperone" thing to prove her superior righteousness. "See how pure I am? When even an idiot wouldn't give us a second glance, and after three previous marriages, I'm still protecting my purity."

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