Hey Sammielee, but isn't dating supposed to mean that you're ready for marriage?
sure.....sammielee
by minimus 47 Replies latest jw friends
Hey Sammielee, but isn't dating supposed to mean that you're ready for marriage?
sure.....sammielee
Date a married or separated person? Haven't and wouldn't. Anyone with emotional ties to another person is off limits in my book. That's just asking for heartache.
Rocco looks like my kinda date,,,smearing red peppers all over your cheeks, lol
can rocco visit me on fridays,,,you won't even miss him lol
i would never with a married man,,,,but i have several clients who are at the moment,,,and one, after 5 years, actually believes he is unhappy at home,,just went on a cruise with his wife,,but she believes it is a non-sexual relationship and he only wants her
sheesh
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It depends. If I know both parties and/or am friends with the hubby, I wouldn't do it as readily.
If I don't know the hubby, or have a very low opinion of him, I'd have very few qualms helping his wife scratch her itch.
And if she were my wife, you wouldn't see me coming,.....
I would hope not. I cannot say for sure, but I intend not to.
I did do some things while separated that I am not proud of. I actually had sex with someone intentionally to get divorce according to JW rules. I will never, ever let any human or organization be the arbitor of my sexual conduct. I never want to hurt anyone again, and be able to live with myself.
JK
Imagine having an intentional act of sex just to satisfy the Watchtower! Sad.
I never did that during the 10 years I was in between wives. Even though a married woman claims it is OK to date her, until you talk to her estranged husband you never know for sure- and I didn't want to be the victim of a jealous husband. I have seen wives use a man just to make their man jealous and get him to come back home.
If I were single (I'm not) i would not date someone who was married or merely seperated unless I know they were going through a divorce and just waiting for the papers. Why? A relationship is built on trust, one where you both start out as cheats doesn't have much going for it.