Ok, here's the thing...
I have a 2004 Ford Taurus. It's really nice with sun roof /power seats/heated side mirrors/the works and it's mine but with a payment of $310. I was just offered to take a 1995 Saturn (still runs decent) for the Taurus but with the '95 I will not have a payment though there will be more maintenance on it.
I LOVE my Taurus, it makes me feel like I'm still human but I'm very much strapped with finances. I live basically day to day with bills and other things. I find it difficult to make ends meet but I tend to do make them meet somehow. I seem to be 2 weeks behind on Electric/Car payment every month. If I did take the "deal", I would be out of a debt of a car which I really can't afford and I can do a bit more fun things with my kids rather than always telling them "no hunny, I can't get your school pictures because we can't afford it right now". With the '95 car I would be out of debt totally but I wouldn't have ANYTHING nice at all.
At the moment, my thinking is, I won't have anything nice for a while but after I get through college I can then get a car I really want. I can then start building my life better. Then a voice in my head says "yeah, but you don't have ANYTHING (material) besides your car so do you really want to lose it too?"
Losing the '04 for the '95 will make me feel sad because I then will not have anything to my name to speak of but I will be able to save more. Keeping the '04 will make me feel sad because I'm so strapped that my kids are also suffering.
I think I'm going to take the deal because I feel the '95 is in the best interest of me and the kids but it's a difficult choice because I so love my car. hmmmm. What would you do if you were in my situation?