As an outsider, and a never JW, I have to say that the systematic destruction of families has to be one of the most evil things that WT does. My heart just bleeds for the pain that so many of you deal with. Whether you believe in God or not, there is NO logic is pushing people away. The WT is WRONG! If someone is troubled, you open your heart and arms to them, if they have questions, you talk and listen to them, and most of all, you love and accept them for who they are.