My name is not really Nicolaou - I just chose it as an alias like so many of us do. Thing is, people have been calling me Nic' online for almost nine years now so who am I to say that Nic' is not real.
If I'm ever disfellowshipped I know that one of the first things I'll do is 'come out' on JWD and tell you all who I really am - will that mean that I'm killing 'Nic'? Should we all resist getting attached to our usernames and avatars?
If a tree falls in cyberspace does it make any sound that Nic' can hear?