When you hide that really naughty pr0n under the bed and don't care that much anymore...
When you pick up a watchtower and a highlight, and instead of underliing the answert, you draw pictures ontop of people for giggles.
When you *have* no choice to go to the meetings (for the family of course) and can't wait to get the hell out becuase one more comment about how great this 'organization' being will make you slap somebody.
Matter of fact, when you make plans to go out on Tuesdays and thursdays and not feel guilty. When you don't worry about seeing people you know from the hall (I'm getting to that point) seeing you come out of a "questionable movie" or place.
When you stop giving them power over your life. Hell, im still working on a few of these and hope to be there soon, rel effin soon.