I helped hubby with this study, so I took notes to comment here. You've caught most of what I noted. To summarize, a good Jehovah's Witness shows mercy by giving money to the society, provide rides to fellow congregation members (only when necessary), and say nice things to people. This is so pathetic, so much weaker than the bible admonitions. Based on what they are taught here, would you call on your Witness relatives in time of disaster? Will they run to the hospital to hold your hand, bring over casseroles in your time of grief, help clean out your flooded basement?
Blondie notes that the activities that are highlighted likely point to problems they are having in with the congregations. Based on that assumption, the society is a "closefisted" bunch. There's also apparently problems with gossip, and favoring the rich. I would suggest that as the leader is, so go the followers. The head office is close-fisted, judgemental, and favors some over others. Why would they expect anything different from the congregations?
I noted also that although the rich are not to be treated any different than any man, that elders are deserving of double honor (Para 8). Keep that in mind, rich people.
I would like to point out a Witness doctrine that has no basis in scripture; their claim that spiritual helps is superior to material. Note that when they bring this doctrine up, no scriptures are quoted. Over and over in the bible there are stories of acts of material mercy. These kindnesses are God in action. Consider the brief but dazzling disciple, Stephen (Acts 6), and Dorcas (Acts 9). Would Stephen or Dorcas have a role in the modern congregation?