Wizard,
I never liked big groups when I went out. I just like going out with no more than three people. A big group is no more than a three ring circus and causes confusion and sometimes hurt feelings and I refused to go anywhere when there was a big group involved.
Never mind that there is always a con-artist who doesn't have enough money or supposedly 'loses' their wallet when it comes time to pay the check. Besides, you can't relate to that many people at one time anyway.
LHG