Pardon my rant

by loosie 11 Replies latest jw experiences

  • loosie
    loosie

    but I'm going to do it anyway.

    I was calling around to my ex sister-in-law's sister to find out if anyone knows how to contact my other brother. The situation is weird. But my other brother has always been a loner and known to disappear w/o any known residence. He hasn't talked to my mom, sister or myself in over 4 years.

    Anyway back to the story. I called my ex sister-in-law's sister to get a number for her ex bro-in-law. (keep in mind they are all witnesses) and she said I don't know the number but instead of you calling Mary (to get the number) call the PO I'd rather have you talk to him instead of Mary because she is disfellowshipped.

    OMG I told her that the reason I was calling was because of a death in the family and I needed to contact my brother.

    It's not like I was going to discuss spirtual things with her anyway. I don't gives a rats ass what Mary believes I just need a number.

    Anyway thank goodness for Zaba search I found the person I was looking for.

    Geez those people are difficult.

    I end up calling mary's ex-husband I tell him there has been a death in the family and I need to contact Steven. He asks are you still in the truth and are you married but he never once asked who died.

    BTW mary's ex-husband used to hang out my brother who died. so he knows all my family members well. but wants to know if I'm in the truth. what a dickhead.

  • R.F.
    R.F.

    Feel free to rant away!

    It's sad for someone to be treated this way over something so simple.

    I'll continue to keep you in my thoughts.

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    awww sorry Loosie,

    people don't know when to say when.

    I am sorry you are going through this difficult time with even more difficult people

    purps

  • tnangel73
    tnangel73

    Some ( a lot) just don't have any common sense. I remember years ago just after my uncle died. I was inactive and I ran into this sister at a convience store. She asked me if my uncle that had died "was in the truth." I said "No, would you give condolences if he had been?" Ugh.

  • Warlock
    Warlock

    Pardon your rant?

    No need.

    It was MORE than justified.

    Now I'm getting pissed.

    Warlock

  • sweetstuff
    sweetstuff

    Nice guy, NOT. ((Hugs)) Loosie

    Seems that is the only question that matters to a dub. Sad but true.

  • horrible life
    horrible life

    Loosie, I understand the brother disappearing act. I have one, exactly like yours. Mine moves from state to state also. When he appears, he is in a different state, with a different woman. If we needed him, I don't know, if we would be able to find him. Aggravating, and sad at the same time.

    I hope you are able to find him soon. HL

  • choosing life
    choosing life

    Dubland is one crazy world! Sorry for your loss and their outright meanness.

  • JWdaughter
    JWdaughter

    Hi, sorry you are going through all this. That you have to deal with idiots through your family tragedy is heartbreaking. I hope you and your bro's family is holding it as together as you can until you have a chance to start healing. Shelly

  • misanthropic
    misanthropic

    loosie I'm so sorry you have to deal with all this on top of everything with the loss of your brother.
    It is weird how unconcerned everyone seems, especially the guy that was your brothers friend. It all sound very heartless to me.
    You hang in there, I can't even imagine what a nightmare al of this must be for you right now.

    Much love Mis

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