The 7th daughter tries to cook a Thanksgiving Dinner

by MsMcDucket 10 Replies latest social family

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    Yep, that's me! I'm giving it a shot! Being the 7th daughter, I didn't have to cook that much especially on the holidays. My mom was a great cook and use to cooking for 13 kids, neices and nephews, cousins, aunts and uncles, and any other kids that didn't have food. She would stay up all night cooking. I remember the smells coming through the house while I lay in bed. If mom didn't feel like cooking, which was rare, my older sisters cooked. When I left home, I think I tried to cook one or two holiday dinners before becoming a Jehovah's Witness. After that, I didn't cook big meals.

    The family always gathered over to one of my older sister's homes for Thanksgiving. Mom always cooked the turkey and dressing and chitlins! She always made the sweet potato pie and green's. Each of the girls would bring one of Mom's favorite dishes. One sister made a killer baked macaroni and cheese from scratch, another made this cake that is a family recipe which we all loved. Mom loved my salads. I would make a huge tossed salad and top it with sliced boiled eggs, cheese, and turkey or ham chunks; and I'd bring all the various salad dressings from Blue Cheese to Ranch. Of course, there was many other tasty dishes; but those that I mentioned were the mainstay.

    Last year, Mom died in November. No one in the family celebrated Thanksgiving. I wasn't going to do anything today; but my youngest daughter was acting depressed about it. I know that I can't bake a turkey and make dressing like my mothers; so I'm not even going to try! I had a roasting hen in the refrigerator and some neck bones. I pulled those out. I sent my daughter to get some chitlins.

    I put the hen on the rotisserie this morning and I cleaned the chitlins; and they are now cooking in the pressure cooker! Once those are done, I'm putting on the neck bones. I'm not going to have fresh greens; but I learned a trick from my Big Mom (adopted grandmother) on how to make canned greens taste like the greens are freshly cooked greens. I'm going to use Stove Top stuffing to make a dressing. My mom taught me how to mix a few things in it to get it be dressing. I'm going to use a boxed macaroni and cheese, but I'll mix in some Velveeta to get it to be creamier. There's no way in the world that I can make a sweet potato pie like mom's! I have a store bought pumpkin pie. My husband doesn't like candied yams, but he loves baked sweet potatoes; so we'll have some of those. I'm not going to make the salad. . .

    We'll have some rolls and cornbread muffins. My oldest daughter has the recipe for the cake and she has got it down to a science! She loves to bake cakes! I, absolutely, hate cranberry sauce; so we won't be having any of that!

    I haven't felt like cooking for months. Since, I couldn't sleep this morning, I took my Provigil so that I would stay up during the day (I have a restricted airway due to paralysis of one of my vocal cords.).

    Hopefully, my dinner won't turn out like "Chevy Chase's Christmas Vacation" dinner! Remember the turkey disintegrated into dust! And there was catnip in the jello!

    I have plenty of insulin! So if it turns out good, I'm going to eat like it was Mom's food!

    Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

  • snowbird
    snowbird

    (((((((McDucket))))) from the 8th daughter.

    Keep smiling.

    Sylvia

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    Snowbird are you a cooker? I don't care to cook; in spite of that, my children think I'm a great cook. I learned how to make meals from whatever is in the kitchen from mom. I never remember the recipes! I guess I was spoiled when it came to cooking or I feel that my sisters are much better at it. They love to have people over to eat! I'm the exact opposite! You'll be doing good to get a peanut butter and jelly sandwich at my house nowadays; that is if you get in!

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

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  • Trygon
    Trygon

    My any chance are you the 7th daughter of a 7th daughter?

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    My any chance are you the 7th daughter of a 7th daughter? No. My mother was the first daughter.

  • Snoozy
    Snoozy

    Mrs D...I'm glad you took the initiative to cook! It makes a body feel good!

    I used to cook the turkey and everyone met at my house..(We had it on Sat. I was a JW you know..)

    I made a lot of mistakes at first..undercooked turkey..overcooked cake...lumpy potatoes..Now I look back and can laugh at my mistakes. They weren't so funny to me at the time though.

    Yesterday I had turkey at my daughter's house. I only made a Peanut butter pie and apple pie..but her Brother in law brought some jello with bananas in it. I love that.So I'm looking forward to some jello with bananas and cool whip and pecans after dinner...there's always room for JELLO..right?
    Well about 3 mouthfuls into it I had this really bad taste in my mouth.It was like a really strong strawberry jello that was lumpy and bitter...but I kept eating..didn't want to hurt his feelings..
    When I was almost finished..his mom and him were talking and let it slip that it had smashed cranberries in it.I almost choked..I hate cranberries too!

    I felt ill all night..ruined my turkey dinner...then she asked if I wanted the rest..(No One else ate it..that should have been a warning to me)
    I said "Sure"..it's now in the trash can...

    But the pies turned out great..and the food was delicious..but I miss the old days when they could all gather at my house and eat.
    The married kids all got in the habit of eating at their in laws that WEREN'T JW's..and can't change their tradition now.

    Anyway..I had a good time and hope you did too...it's always fun to get family together.
    And then it's fun to go home...

    Snoozy..who hopes everyone had a good Thanksgiving and if not..make sure to make preparations now to have a GOOD Christmas...
    Because we are all SPECIAL and we deserve it!

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    Snoozy, the kitchen was a disaster! I had no energy to clean it up. My youngest daughter did it for me! She was so happy to have all the cooked food in the house. I don't think that I'll have to cook for a couple of days (well I don't cook much anyway); but there will be cooked food to put in the microwave! And it will not be store bought microwave dinners!

  • White Dove
    White Dove

    The food was good and aside from a couple of people's emotional baggage and some yelling to be heard over the others, was an ok evening. It's becoming tradition to have it at my friends' house, so hopefully it will be more fun and less stressful next year. I came home yesterday and made a make-up dinner for my daughter and I (minus the turkey). She really appreciated that we could re-do it and make a better memory. I guess some years are like that. Growing up and never celebrating holidays, I had no idea that some Thanksgivings and Christmas' would be better than others within the same group of people year after year. That's interesting. Their house is centrally located from where the rest of us live about 70 miles away in both directions, so I don't know if it would be too hard to have it at my house. I feel like it's my turn to share the burdon/fun of hosting a holiday. I'm planning on doing Christmas here. It remains to be seen if anyone shows up or not.

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket
    I'm planning on doing Christmas here. It remains to be seen if anyone shows up or not.

    My 2nd oldest sister loved to have the gatherings at her house. It is a big to-do! Lots of stuff to clean up! Hopefully, someone will stay and help you clean up afterward. Make sure that people take their bowls or pots back home with them! I guarantee you that you will have no where to put the food! Accept the trash. No sense in wasting it!

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