My wife left me...

by 5thGeneration 22 Replies latest jw friends

  • buffalosrfree
    buffalosrfree

    a couple of years ago, my wife went on a trip for a month and that left me to take care of everything, I set a schedule for myself and my child still at home.

    Monday & Fridays Vacuum, Sweep, Mop all floors cook meals

    Tuesday, water all the plants, clean stove and stove top scrub all surface areas in kitchen, cook

    Wed. bathrooms 2 1/2 took most of the morning but i wanted them clean cook meals

    Thursday Clean up bedroom, wash sheets and blankets both my and childs, cook meals

    Saturday mow the lawn and trim it; take chile to mall and book stores; breakfast at Denny's Domino's for supper

    Sunday take child to fun center, movie, and mall, buffet for brunch, hamburgers, hotdogs for supper. with fixin of course.

    I can't believe it the wife still wasn't happy with the way I had done things or rather she didn't beleive i could have done that well and just wanted to say something. And most of all get use to being home and being Mom and Wife again.

    My child and I made a menu for every meal while mom was away, and included snacks we wanted, movies to rent, movies to go to, beach to vist etc. we had a good time, was able to teach some cooking, (sure) and had some one on one time with my child was a great experience. Had done this very same thing 10 years before with several children and use the same schedule. Tough part was trying to make Mama's dishes like she did, didn't succeed but wasn't for a lack of trying. We had a great time. But missed the wife so much and kids definitely misseed mama, she is the easy one in comparison to me.

  • R.Crusoe
    R.Crusoe

    If you're in a relationship where you both work things out and are concerned for each others enjoyment of life to the extent that you share such feelings with each other and actively look to enhance it - then maybe you just died and went to heaven lol. I occasionally see couples who appear to have that quality and it makes me envious - not jealous - but I'm not sure if I see truth and I want to go talk with them and find out because if it's real and it's there, life makes so much more sense - than mine anyhow - so I'd just like it confirming for me!

  • restrangled
    restrangled

    Dear 5th,

    Let me give it to you straight...

    You gave her a hard time....You are just learning about a hard time alone. You will be very lucky if she doesn't escape for longer away from the lot of you and the kids.

    Have you called to apologize yet for your obnoxious behaivor and voice your appreciatian for all she does?

    I suggest you redeem yourself before she returns by doing the following!

    If you can't keep the place up have it done for you before she gets back. Buy some luxurious sheets and don't sleep in them until she is back the first night. Buy some beautiful scented candles and have them lit in the bathrooms and your bedroom.

    Do not, and I repeat do not leave a dirty kitchen....have it spotless, and all the laundry done.

    Then, just maybe you might be forgiven for giving her a "Hard Time"

    r (of the 48 year old mother of two boys and wife of 28 years class)

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