If you have vacationed out of state in the last few years. just look up a congregation there and ask you old congregation to send your cards there, and you don't show up, so cards will probably get put aside and filed circularly later when you are a no show as they will think you have moved somewhere else. I had two friends do that and waalaa the disappeared into the mist. One three years later has never seen a dub at his residence, and they are retired and home most all of the time. the other has had several visits and killed the visits with specific questins about the society ie. paedophile issue, NGO issue, etc. They quit making an rv on them. Now they are really free to believe/worship god as they wish not some orgazinational entity.