Re - the devil is in the detail! If I, in response to a thread about love came up with responses alluding to women overcompensating for their post-childbirth vaginas by driving hot motors, I could well understand a woman responding with comments non too complementary as to what counted in a woman. And further, if a man were to jokingly, on a regular basis when amongst other men, draw attention to those females with tighter clams, then again I can see how it could piss women off. In fact it does as I'm sure you're all to well aware! So, far from us having to know each other, my responses were about a general malaise there is amongst women, who for the most part also have young, impressionable sons and perhaps unwittingly pass on the same subliminal messages to the next generation!
That's your problem, whatever problems you've had with women you have put it all in one catagory and now all women must act that way. You are so wrong, it's the women you've met and it's the way you've handled yourself with those women. If you keep seeing the same pattern in all women, the problem ain't the women it's you. The topic was why men can't love, it evolved into why some men compensate for so-called short comings, if you got offended it really sounds like a personal problem of yours to me.