It does not mean that you are not sorry, probably immediately,
it might take time to figure out what you are really sorry about,
Maybe the feelings come immediately and then the mind catches up
or maybe it is the other way around.
Sometimes we have unrealistic expectations of others and ourselves that cause calamity.
Possibly, we learned immediately after hurting someone, doing something we regret, just doing something wrong, that what we did just was not quite right.
We all have bad days, misunderstandings, awakenings, new information, we all know that.
Sometimes we just don't know how to handle a particular situation or person.
Given all that, we offend each other. Some let it go, some confront it, some kill each other over it. Some embrace conflicts as a great learning tool.
Sometimes we don't need to be sorry at all, just understanding, respectful of others.
Ok, now I think I am babbling.
Anybody have any thoughts or feelings to add, would love it and appreciate it.
loving you all the best way I know how
purps