My wife's maid of honor at our wedding- married a worldly guy and left the religion
after years of pioneer service.
My wife's former best friend from her single days as a teen- grew up to leave the
religion entirely, came back for a brief stint, left again.
My wife's most current former best friend- is now a fringe JW, as she has been
disillusioned by a judicial matter she was treated harshly on. The lady totally flipped
on her friends and abandoned them, moved away, moved back, but refuses to repair
any relationships as she thought the JW friends should have been more supportive
and understanding. In short, she doesn't leave the JW's but she developed a life
outside the JW's.
My wife's current best friend- loyal JW, totally judgmental in her gossip, but acts very
upbuilding when talking to other loyal JW's. She thinks and examines things with her
JW-rose colored glasses. She moved away to a simpler life near her parents. I don't
see her leaving the JW's, but she did seem more concerned for her future than for
the end of this system of things to arrive.
CONCLUSION: My wife chooses people who are able to THINK. They manage to want
to enjoy life despite the WTS controls. Things happen in their lives to push them out
of the JW's because it only takes one good flash of light or one bad experience for many
of them- before they try to open their eyes and their minds.
REASON FOR THIS THREAD: I just need to "keep hope alive."