as a jw my beliefs were that the allowing of suffering was not cruelty but based on the issue of divine sovereignty.
as a public speaker i had loads of illustrations to explain the whole process from racehorses to surgical procedures etc etc.
one of my talks dealt with why armageddon hasn't come yet..and after discussing the universal issue (time needed to prove) and the side issues of allowing all kinds of government to be tried, scientific progress to be unsuccessful, humans only serving god out of selfishness and so on and so forth, i then made the point that all of these issues have been addressed, have been answered time and time again and so they are no longer the reason that god has not stepped in.
so what is the only reason left as to why he hasn't...well according to a scripture in peter it is because he does not desire any to be destroyed but desires all to attain to repentence. so the longer he allows the system to continue the more people can become jws and get everlasting life.
but....
in recent years there has been practically zero increase...those that have become jws are merely offsetting those that leave or are expelled. which means that those in line for everlasting life are not neccesarily long time servers but newly associated or children. those that have left have become inactive due to depression, illness, and disillusionment having sacraficed things that they were promised would be satisfied long ago..( Expectation postponed is making the heart sick) and those that have been df-ed have primarily succombed to the basic human desires that way back in the garden of eden they were told they would have no control over. very few if any could be said to be wicked wanton wrongdoers who deserve everlasting destruction.
and if god does not desire any to be destroyed then why is he considering it in the first place. especially when a much better solution is possible. based on jw beliefs why not get rid of satan and the demons...get rid of those humans that definately do not deserve to live (a heart- reading god should easily be able to locate those) and then give everyone alive and all ressurected ones a new start in perfect conditions. no mass destruction, no more waiting, no more preaching, just get on with it already.
But does God owe you a damned thing?
on the basis of him being almighty and we being his creation then i guess we have no right to make demands but this is reasoning most specious imho. we were for a good part of our early lives reliant on parents who if they applied this thinking could treat us anyway they wished arguing that we have no right to question it since without them we wouldn't exist..or how about an employer who provides us with work that allows us to make a wage on which we depend to live. does our dependance on him allow him to treat us unfairly or even cruelly because we have nowhere else to go.
surely god should be held to an even higher standard than imperfect humans...and since he does not lie surely he 'owes' it to us to fulfill his promises
YOU SAID YOU’D CATCH ME WHEN NOT IF I FELL
YOU DIDN’T HAVE TO PROMISE THAT
BUT NOW TO PROVE YOUR WORDS ARE TRUE
THE OBLIGATION LIES WITH YOU - liars and fools...the irony
the conclusion i have come to is that if jws are wrong then obviously i don't want to know them
and if they are right then i don't want to know god.