ATTN CYRUS: Cyrus, I married a guy from India who looked middle eastern(and he had a little tummy too)-my son was nicknamed Aladdin throughout his school years, nuff said? Apparently 'I' thought the guy was attractive. And girls are totally after my son. . .NOT TO MENTION, you said you are married. Someone else has (or at least had) the hots for you:)
OTOH, my first husband had non-'hot for me' motives in marrying me. Not sure what my second one married me for. It wasn't sex.
When I was in the SCA a funny little blond guy seemed to have the hots for me-but I flirted a lot and he probably thought he'd get lucky with me, where all the other wenches might like the big, tough, warrior types. I flirted with them too, but thats all:) The SCA was kind of crazy. . .I miss that group. I think some of you all would fit in:)
In Jr. high, the guy I had the hots for was a funny, short redheaded guy. He was a bard at heart. I love those guys:) The redheaded bards. *sigh*