Paragraph 20 from 12/15/01 Watchtower article "Learn From Me":
"Can we learn something from this event? Suppose you were an elder in a Christian congregation today. And further suppose that Leviticus 15:25-28 were a Christian requirement today and that a Christian woman had violated that law, feeling frantic and abandoned. How would you react? Would you publicly humiliate her with critical counsel? "Oh," you say, "never would I do that! Following Jesus' example, I would make every effort to be kind, loving, thoughtful, and considerate." Very good! But the challenge is to do it, to imitate Jesus' pattern."
"You cannot change what's over, but only where you go"