Hey Reverend!
I think it is a positive thing that you and your mom "decided to respect each other's beliefs". At least that way you can still maintain a relationship with her.
It sucks to know how the WT keeps our family held "hostage". Each time that I try to reason with my mom I receive the same reactions... "you know this is the Truth(tm)", etc...
By the way, the person that Mastodon mentioned, I think I know who she is... Am I right??
Have a great day!
TTRP