Welcome to the board Josh!!!!
I'm in Hickory, originally from Charlotte. Hopefully we'll be able to meet at one of the monthly meet-up's in Charlotte. There is one this Saturday @ 3:00pm at the Smelly Cat Cafe.
babygirl...
by josh1029 17 Replies latest jw experiences
Welcome to the board Josh!!!!
I'm in Hickory, originally from Charlotte. Hopefully we'll be able to meet at one of the monthly meet-up's in Charlotte. There is one this Saturday @ 3:00pm at the Smelly Cat Cafe.
babygirl...
Hi Josh welcome to the board
Your story about your father unfortunately is a similar one that you hear quite often here, families broken up , marriages broken up and destroyed
all over a bunch of bad corrupt businessmen who base themselves in Brooklyn New York, what a terrible waste of human endeavor and purpose.
Because of this high control group it can be extremely hard to keep a close and loving kind of relationship with even are immediate family members
but thats the thing were faced with. But nevertheless this is a good place for information and a good place to voice your own viewpoint.
Will be looking forward to your posts
Welcome Josh
On top of it all, and the thing that bothers me the most, I am a failure in my fathers eyes.
This really troubled me too. However, prior to being d/f I have a few chats about why I believe the WTS to be a cult, raising issues that were very difficult for them to address. Then, in the only proper conversation I have had with my father since leaving I told him that I forgive him. He wanted to know whatever for. I explained that I forgive him for raising me in a cult, and now shunning me in favour of the Watchtower Society. I understand that he was only 20 when he converted, so was vunerable at the time, and the way he acts is not his true personality, but how he has been trained to act.
My change in perspective has helped me cope, and the situation is now that he has to justify himself to me, rather than the other way around.
Hello and welcome, Josh!
Oh and by the way, what Nosferatu says is true... this board started as a forum FOR Witnesses, BY Witnesses... and by discussing things... the light, may we say, did indeed get brighter! The original threads are still here... knock yourself out and go back and read them someday.
Cheers,
Baba.
Welcome Josh...there are many good jw sites on the internet...this is one of the best...relax, enjoy and have a good time....
Welcome Josh.
Just listening in. This is really an amazing site.
its amazing isnt it? WELCOME to JWD
Welcome.
But since I am no longer a Witness, and can now think for myself, I am a failure
Your not a failure, don't allow yourself to think that way.
I like the Mad magazine "Spy VS Spy" avatar. Haven't seen that in years.