Yes. I'd have to change tha path of my grandparents, or my parents, or just give myself a bigger attitude and refuse to participate much sooner. There are just too many opportunities that myself or my parents passed up that would have led to more satisfying experiences, and so much grief and trauma would have ben avoided.
Sure, other, nastier traumas may have taken their place - but they would have been more laong the lines of MY traumas from MY choices, not the traumas that a child and teenager and young adult were led into by hypnotic control freaks.