I have seen many elders and misterial servants come and go. Many quit and many disfellowshipped. I am related to many of them that are no longer around. I always knew they were not saints and felt they had no buisness judging anyone, and that is what elders do, I don't know how anyone can call it anything else. I have never been impressed by any elder or ministerial servant. Most of them that I have ever known had enough trouble taking care of their own buisness without trying to take care of anyone else. I have told many of them just that.
I have always been leary of people who are free with their advise. Especially from people who have the audacity to think their advice is worth anything. I find that most people who give advice have enough problems of their own without trying to take care of yours.
I have no problem with people giving thier opion if someone ask for it . If I do want someones opinion I will ask them.