My experience is that if someone requires control, it's probably because they're crazy and they're not worth the trouble. I prefer a woman who can act like a grown adult and function as a human being without my interference or intervention.
Smarter is always better, because after the sex is over, it's helpful to have somebody to talk to! Seriously, think about it. Sex with a dumb person might be great, but you wouldn't want to discuss politics with them. You'd probably suffocate yourself with a trash bag out of frustration.
Asian babes. Hmmm.... interesting. Maybe whoever is sending those ads to JWD thinks that ex JW males need mail order brides. I don't know.