Happy Anniversary!!
Looks like you are already doing what I would advise: Making memories and enjoying each day you have together. You show her everyday how much you love her. You will more than likely survive if you lose her first, even if your heart feels like it will stop beating. When you are together so long, your hearts begin to beat in rythym. When you lose your love, the rythym will be off forever. But it will continue to beat.
momz