why thank you darlin'! I appreciate the kind words. Cas - what part of Indiana are you in? My sister has lived in Indiana for more than 20 years, a long time away from the beach.
As for ostentation - let me described the Palm Springs "look." That is, the look of much-operated-upon women who are the aging trophy wives of really old trophy guys. I was stunned to see this when I first moved here: straw hat with gold scarf around it, loads of heavy gold jewelry, plasticly smooth face, wrinkled neck, white sleeveless shirt and white golf shorts, with a gold patent leather belt. Gold sandals, wrinkled legs, pedicure. Gold purse. They ALL dress like that!