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However, local elders might be suspicious of any jw who is not attending meetings, particularly if they are gathering information as we speak. A "catch 22" for the questioning party also, don't you think?
Elders do not usually become suspicious of a publisher that has become inactive or stopped attended meetings. They are more apt to be concerned for them, though that is not always apparent. Those men are usually so exhausted from making a living, taking care of their own families, preparing congregation meetings, etc. that they to often are just too run down to do the needed pastoral shepherding. Too often they are the ones falling ill from running themselves to death. Just think about how many former elders are out there.
I don’t know what you mean about "gathering information" in relation to pathofthorns. But I do know that for reasons I described the Society is unlikely to send copies of his correspondence to local elders.
May I ask which language are you more fluent than English?
Regretfully I cannot answer that question.
pathofthorns
I am still confused however at the path my letter will travel when i send it. Can u please explain this more clearly?Why do i send it to Brooklyn and not my local branch?
Can u give me a specific example of a mailing address I would put on an envelope so that it reaches the intended destination, whatever that is? (i know that sounds ridiculous, but i want to be sure)
If sending to the Writing Department address your envelope:
Watchtower Bible & Tract Society
Writing Department
25 Columbia Heights
Brooklyn, NY USA 11201
Address you letter accordingly, that is to the Writing Department.
If sending to the Chairman’s Committee address your envelope simply as:
Watchtower Bible & Tract Society
25 Columbia Heights
Brooklyn, NY USA 11201
Then on your letter address it to the Governing Body, Chairman’s Committee.
If you send this letter to your local branch it may not get to where it will do the most good. Again, send it to Brooklyn. Though the local branch would probably return some reply, on the subject in question they are not authorized to return any reply other than the perfunctory. Frankly, they probably will not even forward your letter. At best all they would do is include some remarks about similar correspondence they have received in the way of a regular report to Brooklyn.
Because headquarters (Brooklyn) does not want branch committees seeing any more of this stuff than they have to, they may either answer you directly, effectively dictate a letter for your branch to send out to you or else they will reply to you and copy your branch with that response. Branch offices will hold such letters in the event that local elders call them about you raising the question then they can say, "Yes, we know of his correspondence with Brooklyn, and they answered him. Is there some problem?" Unless you provoke some local concern over this subject your local elders will probably never know you wrote. In the meantime, if you write to the Society you will have sent a message to those who are best able to do something. The more well reasoned and endorsed letters from Witnesses that Brooklyn receives on this issue the more those who want to make changes are empowered to do something.
Can I send a copy of my letter to my local elders as well, thus making them aware of what i am doing, while at the same time making sure they get all the information I am actually sending?
Of course you can do what you suggest, but I advise against it. This is not an issue that local elders can do anything about unless they take it upon themselves as individuals or as a body to write in with their own well reasoned letter including a corresponding suggestion for change. Unless you feel that your local elders will react that way then I suggest that you simply keep this matter between you and the Brooklyn offices of the Watchtower Society. There are men there can and want to do something about it, but like everyone else, they need support. Well reasoned letters are one means to provide such support. That is true regardless of what sort of reply that you may get back. The letter will do its work by it being sent and not by any reply you may get personally.
How long does a reply generally take? What are my odds of a written response especially if i specifically request one? I have no intention of meeting with the elders as they have already expressed ignorance and/or used unsound reasoning in this matter.
I do not know where you live. Responses can take anywhere from 3 or 4 weeks to a few months, if you get one at all. I recommend that you send you letter some way so that you can verify that it was received because that is the main thing. Many carriers have online tracking systems so that you can know. Please keep in mind that the reply to you is not where the letter is doing the most good. The most good comes from giving more support to those that see a need and want to do something about it.
I would assume you have written in yourself, submitting information presented in jwresearch.com. What has your response been to this?
There is nothing I talk about as Friend that I have not spoken about to men at Brooklyn. Because of my circumstances feedback that I get may or may not be similar to what you could get. An average publisher writing in on the subject we speak of can usually expect a courteous reply that basically says that your letter was received and your thoughts noted. There is usually some conclusion that encourages that you keep up the fight of the faith and remain active in preaching. But, again, the reply is not the important thing. If it provides any encouragement, the Society continues using me in various capacities that are deemed "privileges." Of course you only have my anonymous word for that, but hopefully my actions that you know of are worthy of some small measure of trust. Otherwise you can read from the Society’s literature where suggesting doctrinal change is acceptable and fine as long as the publisher is not stirring contentions. If it makes you feel more comfortable then in writing you can even reference such comments in your letter.
I hope these comments prove helpful to you. In the end only you can decide what is the best thing for your circumstances.
Friend