Thank you for your concerns and thoughts Quandry. Please do not read into my impressions of my first Kingdom Hall experience and the JW organization as an indication as to how I will behave with my future in-laws. I do understand that it can be very difficult to get a true impression of someone via these forums. I can assure you that I will be nothing but pleasant and respectful, as will SFF.
Thank you everyone for your kind welcomes! ~IMM