Yesterday was my birthday and what a bum day it was !

by oldflame 11 Replies latest jw friends

  • oldflame
    oldflame

    Well I turned another year younger yesterday, My girlfriend who has been living with me for almost a year tells me, here is your birthday present and I will not be living here any more. Here son has had a time with trouble and last summer needed a place to live. A month ago someone stole half of my pain medications. Well the most likely person was her son as he was living here and had access to the house many times.

    Anyway he has since moved on and now my son needs a place to stay for awhile and I told him he could move into the spare bedroom. She ( my girl friend) says that we can live together meaning my son and I but she will not be here with us. She hardly even knows my son to make a judgement like that. But as I always said blood is thicker than water.

    So now I am on the singles list again, 47 and still looking for misses right. I figured after all these years someone would be a part of my life but here at 47 I am finding myself still looking for that perfect companion. Is this just a wish and a hope or is there really someone for everyone ?

  • MissingLink
    MissingLink

    Dang. Sorry man.

    Yesterday was my birthday too. My wife made me a pumpkin pie! Best (only) birthday in 33 years!

    Hopefully you're next birthday will be a better one.

  • LouBelle
    LouBelle

    Well happy birthday to you both (was mine on the 20th) OldFlame - I'm sorry it wasn't a good one - but there is next year to look forward too , plus you can still have an awesome 47th year of living.

  • Casper
    Casper
    She ( my girl friend) says that we can live together meaning my son and I but she will not be here with us.

    Oldflame,

    That is so totally unfair...!! I am so sorry that things turned out that way.

    Yes, I truly believe there is someone for everyone, and it will find you when you least expect it. It happen for me and for several people I know.

    Just be patient and stop looking... Love "Will" find you....

    I wish it could have been better...

    Cas

  • Casper
    Casper

    Missinglink...

    Happy Belated "Birthday" to YOU too......

    "Pumpkin Pie"..........Yummmmm.

    Cas

  • wings
    wings

    Sorry also for your loss.

    Happy Birthday, you have a whole year to make your next one better.

    Yesterday was my birthday too.

    Missing Link: HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, YOU LIVE IN A ZOO, YOU SMELL LIKE A MONKEY, AND YOU LOOK LIKE ONE TOO.

  • R.Crusoe
    R.Crusoe

    I have been known to only realise it had been my birthday two or three days after the event - and that was in my 20s and 30s so ???

    Maybe it's better when you weren't aware it was a bum day??

  • hillbilly
    hillbilly

    I guess you didnt get a cake either?

    Hill

  • Inquisitor
    Inquisitor

    Good on you for giving your son a place to stay! I trust he knows what a great dad you are. Happy birthday, oldflame! INQ

  • oompa
    oompa
    Oldflame: I figured after all these years someone would be a part of my life but here at 47 I am finding myself still looking for that perfect companion. Is this just a wish and a hope or is there really someone for everyone ?

    You could start a new thread with that question oldflame.......oh thats right you just did! I really wish I knew the anser to it, but mathematically there is probably hundreds or thousands for everyone with billions on earth.

    btw....sorry, that really sucks for your girlfriends birthday present.......really lame timing....you will do better.............oompa

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