A high school custodian, an insurance salesman, and a mailman can tell you "no your sins are NOT forgiven, because we don't even believe you are really sorry. Sure you have said it over and over and cried, and appealed our decision that you are not really sorry, however not only us, but a window-washer, an old retired man who falls asleep a lot, and and Shaklee master distributor agree with US! You already had that one prior when you tenderly kissed Sister Jessicas left nipple ever so tenderly......so you are OUTTA HERE!".....................oompa
So we fuss at Catholics for thinking they can forgive sins, but we don't see anything wrong with NOT forgiving when kids ask for it??????