"cant stand people like you that choose the easy route and just simply "lie"."
Ohhhhhhhhhhh, Trickie just makes my head hurt! Like covering up your true feelings just so you have a small chance at saving your marriage and maintaining some small dignity is "the easy route." And Trickie, in my opinion, you do NOT have much/anything to add to this conversation since you were never baptized. Those of you lucky enough to never have sold your soul to the Watchtower by getting dunked have no idea what we faders have to go through in order to hold on to some semblance of our lives and our families. So back off, if you have nothing positive to contribute, and maybe spend some more time reading here and getting your facts straight rather than just jumping to incorrect conclusions.
Easyreader, Good Luck, Mate, you can do it, you are strong, and you are not lying as much as you are protecting yourself and your family!