Anger, rage and guilt are symtoms of Grief. There area specific phases of grief that must be experiences before we can move toward healing. Each person is unique as to how long these phase will last and education of the issues is a great help. Gary's research is a good example of making it through the process.
We grieve over more than the death of a loved one. The loss of a core belief is also cause for grieving. As you read each poster here, some are sad, some angry, some numb but we have all lost something that at one time was at the center of our lives.
Talking and expressing feelings is very helpful in getting over the guilt phase. Thank goodness for JWD, I really feel it is a Healing Place.
May Peace be with each and every one of you.