Witness suicide in Anderson, Indiana???

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  • forHizglory
    forHizglory

    David was my younger brother.

    Yes I agree that the picture was not appropriate for those that didn't know him. David was a goof ball LOL and his Dad thought that was funny instead of sad. Of course if you didn't know him it looked bad. And for some us us we didn't like it much. Feel free to check out the obituary we made for him here. He was born here in Missouri and moved to Indiana with his father.

    We don't yet know the cause of his "drowning". It has been investigated and they really don't know. David was the kindest person you could ever meet. He wouldn't hurt a fly! He was so full of love and compassion. So why anyone else would be the cause of this is beyond me. I do know that no one understood him. Doctors called him schitzo, but I knew David, and that he was NOT. They doped him up and so who really knows. It could've been an accident for all we know. He went to the river everyday to take pictures and just hang out. I do appreciate the concern on this site from all of you who didn't even know him. It is extremely hard to lose someone like that. Instantly....

  • forHizglory
  • Blithe Freshman
    Blithe Freshman

    Welcome forHizglory,

    I'm sorry to read about your brothers untimely death. You have my sympathy. Thank you for adding to the post so we can get to know him & share in your grief.

    I hope to hear more from you.

    Blithe

  • jamiebowers
    jamiebowers

    So sorry for your loss...

  • DJK
    DJK

    I'm reading this for the first time. My condolences on your loss.

    I'm curious. This happened nearly a year ago. How and what brought you to this site? Your first post, specifically regarding this tragedy. I find it amazing.

    Welcome, I hope you stay for at lease a little while.

  • Blithe Freshman
  • SixofNine
    SixofNine

    So sorry for your loss, forHizglory.

    ps...You seem to have been left out of that obit, btw.

  • forHizglory
    forHizglory

    Thanks for all the concern....

    Blithe thank you that touched my heart... I was actually browsing on google cause I heard that it is good to google your name to see if anyone is using it with you not knowing... I type in my husband's name and up comes this thread... quite shocking at first and then to see complete strangers concerned about a man they never met was heartwarming. I had to set things strait on why that pic was chosen, and I figured the ppl reading should know a little about this mysterious man behind the obituary. Never thought my husbands name would bring this up tho... LOL its kinda funny now...

    I'll admit I haven't allowed myself to grieve on this, and don't know when I will be ready.... Its not that I'm scared, I am just a happy person... my life is great... I don't want to be upset... But its the anger that surfaces that bothers me... because my brother was wonderful... his life hadn't even begun... and I hadn't seen him in maybe 4-5 years... he didnt deserve it. But at the same time I am happy for him. He battled the struggle of his life everyday. The devil wanted him and wasn't going to stop... He was so confused, and I couldnt reach him. But I didnt try hard enough. I thought there was more time I guess...

    David was an awesome artist... I mean AWESOME! he had such talent that hadn't been discovered... he loved music... he loved God... he loved his family.... his pets were everything to him.. he had birds, cats, even mice(I know yuck!). And he played video games and was on the computer all the time. And he was starting to enjoy photography...

    I don't know that anyone cares to read all this detail about him, but it has broken me down a bit... almost therapeudic...

    Thanks for listening.. GOD bless you all.

  • askajw
    askajw

    Hello Everyone -

    This is the MOTHER of the boy in discussion. My daughter has already posted for you with her view.

    I was in Indiana shortly after my ex-husband placed the obituary in the news paper. I was apalled by what

    he did. This picture of our son was truly a display of his ill regard for our son's passing - so it seemed.

    To many, it seems strange that the living would have the nerve to speak of or publish something like that

    after the death of their child. It might have seemed a great reproach on our God to do such a thing. But is it?

    Remeber, people react differently to any given situation. Even YOU. You don't know what another person went

    through. It's called "Empathy" Have you heard of it?

    I am a faithful Christian Servant of Jehovah. This is, of couse an apostate website. My fellow worshipers

    need to understand that I found this comment through non believers, and felt it necessary to defend this

    issue. This will be the first and last visit here. People will do anything to smear Jehovah's name, and the

    reputation of his people in the mud. This comment will clear everyone once and for all.

    My Son, David Barttrum had schizophrenia. A mental illness - often misunderstood as 'split personality

    disorder'. Not so, it is a mental illness about hearing voices and sounds that aren't there, and where thought

    processes are split off or connected wrong in the brain. This is the more mild description of the illness. There

    is also the known 'paranoid' schizophrenia - "A BEAUTIFUL MIND" Our son didn't have that form.

    Our son, David was also a jokester, a comic, a comedian of sorts, with an extremely happy disposition, a

    jolly old soul, if you will. He liked to make faces and make people laugh. He loved to make people laugh. He

    got that, of course from both of his parents, who have extremely happy personalities. It's no wonder, then

    that someone captured this picture of him acting so silly. Whether you, the reader choose to accept it or not,

    whether you believe in the resurrection or not is your own affair. We do, and therefore believe that our son

    will return in the flesh to this earth with a smile of approval that his dad loved him enough to show the world

    who he truly was. This was our Son, David, who we loved dearly. Our little 'puppy boy'. Our little 'cotton top'

    boy. It wasn't anything that couldn't be fixed, you know. Our son had the priviledge of two more obits in addition

    to the first one. How many people get that?* Not many. My son's dad putting that picture in the paper in now way

    showed any lack of love for our son. Though he will have to answer for it when our son returns, only if it should

    even be called to mind in the paradise. (Luke 23:43, Matthew 6:9, 10) But we feel David will be tickled pink that

    we did that for him. There was absolutely no harm intended. You just have to KNOW the person!

    * By the way, THANK YOU FOR MAKING OUR SON A CELEBRITY!!!

    See our son's myspace at : www.myspace.com/4davidmyson

    Certainly not infamous either. Our son was an artist, a comedian, an intelligent

    person. A very likeable guy.

    askajw

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  • AllTimeJeff
    AllTimeJeff

    There is nothing to be happy about or defend when someone dies tragically, esp if mental illness was involved. Words cannot express my own sadness and empathy towards the family.

    For the family: In whatever tradition that you believe, may you see your son again, and may he always live in your hearts forever.

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