The end of the innocence.....

by wings 11 Replies latest jw friends

  • wings
    wings

    So now I'm 50....in a few months....51.....there are definite perks to getting older. Lessons learned are hard, sometimes brutal. When you survive one after another....innocence lost, wisdom gained. If you for some dark reason have to revisit the past, at least you have the knowledge that you can live through it. Yes, you can live through it. yes....you can.....endless possibilities for survival reality shows. Somehow the perspective of post trauma gives new meaning to the years ahead.

    This topic is about new life after near death. For me it was loosing my faith in God. My major trauma....the end of my innocence, and the beginning of the rest of my life.

    How about you??? Would love to hear.....

    In tribute to the topic http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NnOP1WKTiLc

  • AlmostAtheist
    AlmostAtheist

    Life is like anything else -- by the time you know how to do it well, you're done.

    Also like anything else, you can choose to enjoy the process or fret over your lack of progress. But either way, you're where you are, doing what you're doing.

    Dave

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    one of my all time fave songs i understand purps

  • compound complex
    compound complex

    Greetings, wings:

    Great tune - wistful and sad (for me, at least). A friend recently told me that 60 is the new 40. That being so, I've entered into an entire new era this week, a new lease on life ...

    Well, I'm hoping so! Despite our mutual suffering through shattered faith, I'll bet there's a lot of good out there awaiting us.

    Love,

    CoCo

  • AWAKE&WATCHING
    AWAKE&WATCHING

    How ya doin' there wings? When you coming through Ohio ? DAVE - You are way smarter than you look. LOL

  • OnTheWayOut
    OnTheWayOut

    Don Henley: The End of the Innocence

    Remember when the days were long
    And rolled beneath a deep blue sky
    Didnt have a care in the world
    With mommy and daddy standing by
    When happily ever after fails
    And weve been poisoned by these fairy tales
    The lawyers dwell on small details
    Since daddy had to fly
    But I know a place where we can go
    Thats still untouched by man
    We'll sit and watch the clouds roll by
    And the tall grass wave in the wind
    You can lay your head back on the ground
    And let your hair fall all around me
    Offer up your best defense
    But this is the end
    This is the end of the innocence
    O beautiful, for spacious skies
    But now those skies are threatening
    Theyre beating plowshares into swords
    For this tired old man that we elected king
    Armchair warriors often fail
    And weve been poisoned by these fairy tales
    The lawyers clean up all details
    Since daddy had to lie
    But I know a place where we can go
    And was away this sin
    Well sit and watch the clouds roll by
    And the tall grass wave in the wind
    Just lay your head back on the ground
    And let your hair spill all around me
    Offer up your best defense
    But this is the end
    This is the end of the innocence
    Who knows how long this will last
    Now weve come so far, so fast
    But, somewhere back there in the dust
    That same small town in each of us
    I need to remember this
    So baby give me just one kiss
    And let me take a long last look
    Before we say good bye
    Just lay your head back on the ground
    And let your hair fall all around me
    Offer up your best defense
    But this is the end
    This is the end of the innocence

    Wow, I was a young naive soldier for the U.S., and then an even more
    naive soldier for Jehovah. I had a real purpose in life, finally. Armageddon
    was near, and I was no longer watching the clouds roll by. 1995's change
    in doctrine was the beginning of the end of my innocence. But even after
    I figured out that WTS was a lie, I didn't really start to get my true wisdom
    until I started reading more.

    I used to be a pessimist. "Things won't work out." During my innocence,
    I married an optimist and learned to change my outlook. I now fully believe
    in the goodness of Man, I hope for the best, but I am cynical. Individuals
    don't want to screw you over, but beware of every single organization
    including religious, governmental, commercial, social ones. Always follow
    the money for the correct answers.

    While that might sound sad, I am happier knowing it.

  • wings
    wings
    While that might sound sad, I am happier knowing it.

    otwo....I understand. I am happier knowing it also. How do we navigate life after we take off the glasses? Turth is we can see for the first time.

    The great part is, we are not alone.

  • flipper
    flipper

    WINGS- Great thread sis ! I like the point you made, " innocence lost, wisdom gained ". And that's a big key I believe as well. Turning our experiences into wisdom to help others- as well as ourselves will bring more peace into our lives and others lives. When I wake up each morning I ask myself - What kind of difference or positive effect can I have on someone's life today ? Maybe just a word, or a thought , anything you do in a positive manner to make the world a better place - helps a person sleep good at night. Take care, Peace out,Mr. Flipper

  • wings
    wings
    When you coming through Ohio ?

    How does the end of June sound? Just a shot in the dark right now, but I have to start planning the trip or I'll go nuts. Well more nuts than I already am......

  • wings
    wings
    Always follow the money for the correct answers.

    OTWO....I do this too.....perfect comment for the loss of innocence.

    When I wake up each morning I ask myself - What kind of difference or positive effect can I have on someone's life today ?

    jeez Flipper....I wish I could be you for a day!

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