Okay, Witness, let me translate your interpretation into what we really want:
1. Good looks....2. Rich.....3.Funny......4. Nice body....5.Talks ALL the time to THEM......6.Popular {Famous}........7.Forgives them for EVERYTHING they do as a woman......8.Loves their family......9. Agree's with them always.....10. Lets them take charge of finacial and family matters. 11. Stays at home wrapped in cotton wool when not with "her." I guess thats Amore!
- Attractive to us. Could look like Marty Feldman and be attractive to us personally.
- It helps for him to care about working and earning money enough to pay the bills, save plenty and have a little left for pleasure. Rich? No, we don't have to have someone who is rich. Gainfully employed and good at managing money is a definite plus.
- It helps if they have a good sense of humor and get our jokes, even if they don't make the wittiest replies all the time. Someone who doesn't get the humor in life can be a pain to everyone.
- Nice body doesn't matter. I love John Candy. He was a big, teddy bear of a man. Not true about the body, unless the woman is shallow.
- There are times we ladies like peace and quiet. But if we need you to discuss something, then we need for you to talk. But I believe all couples need quiet times and solitude.
- Famous? No. Not at all. Why? So privacy is invaded all the time. This one is silly.
- Forgiveness is something both men and women should offer each other. Keeping a log of the injury? It will destroy any good feelings you have for each other.
- Loves their family. Of course!
- You don't have to agree with us always. There are times you might need to stand up and say, "Hey, that's f'd up, honey."
- No woman wants a man who has no spine and lets her rule him and control him. On the other hand, most of us don't want you ruling us or controlling us or freaking out if we have a spine. Financial stuff? Either we both take care of it or the one who is good with money takes care of the money. Hopefully one of us is good with money.
- A healthy couple needs time apart and their own friends to do things with. I wouldn't want a man who stayed at home wilting when I was out doing the things of life I need to do.
You're still judging all women by your own incompatible relationship. A relationship that is unhealthy becomes a mass of tangled wires over the years. You need to untangle the wires and stop buying into antiquated stereotypes of both men and women and relationships.