I never figured out why some JWs ALWAYS seemed to have a troubled conscience. Everything bothered them and of course you were supposed to kiss their asses because you could "stumble" them.
Isn't THAT the truth! It took years to figure out whatever issue I had with another person had nothing really to do with them. It was really my issue. So with alllllllllll those nazi brothers going crazy over skirt lengths and sleevless dresses end up DF'd for the very thing they accused everybody else of doing. I was no angel as a witness, but at the same time I was a productive and responsible congregation "publisher" ; I somehow balanced it in my mind. I somehow knew it really was my life not theirs, and there are some things you just must do as part of the human experience.