While he says he has not seen a letter ,he tells me that at the last visit the CO told his body of elders pretty much what is being said here on JWD.
He gave some examples:
1- If a young MS/pioneer, attends college and lives at home, would he and his elder Dad be deleted? No! Why? The young man is "spiritually focused".
2- An elder's daughter attends college in the hopes of having a good job in the future and Dad promotes this course of action. This elder will be deleted.
All in all, this sounds dangerously subjective to me. I think we will see some people "get away with murder" while in other congregations many heads will roll. They will be at the mercy of the whims of their individual BOE's and CO's. So what else is new?
changeling :)